If You Get Bad Vibes From Someone, How Do You React?
By Artgirl
@owstalaga (4707)
Philippines
September 13, 2015 7:07am CST
Okay so not everyone you meet will always be your friend right? We get to interact with different kinds of people everyday, offline and online, so sometimes there will always be people you don't like even if they're not doing anything to you. And there will also be people you send bad vibes to when you get hurt or even if they aren't consciously doing anything bad to you.
When I get bad vibes from someone, I don't let it get to me especially if I never did anything to them. Even when they being high and mighty or condescending around me well that's them showing who they are. If someone told me I did something wrong to them and it is my fault then I promptly apologize. As for me giving off bad vibes (which I rarely do unless I'm PMSing) it's mostly because they aren't doing their job at all thus delaying what I need or they did something really bad/hurtful to me.
Example of something bad that happened to me was when someone I trusted lied and manipulated me just to get me into a network marketing meeting which I hate. I still hate what that person did to me 2 years ago. Whenever I remember it, I feel like I send bad vibes off to him because he never apologized thinking he did nothing wrong to me even after I told him about it. We argued about what he did and he even justified that lying is good because he did it to his parents and got their food business off the ground. 
So anyway, which one are you mostly? The giver of bad vibes or the receiver? And what do you do when it happens?
So anyway, which one are you mostly? The giver of bad vibes or the receiver? And what do you do when it happens?4 people like this
5 responses
@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
14 Sep 15
i reckon i'm fortunate to be so isolated in my own lil cocoon. when i was though, i'd jest walk 'way. folks tend to do what benefits 'em most 'n feel that's justification, regardless 'f how they've treated others. i'm with ya, i'm quick to apologize, but i'm also quick to tell 'em how i feel - if'n they don't sincerely do the same, they're history in my eyes.
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@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
30 Sep 15
Sometimes it is better to be in our own cocoons. Less trouble from troublesome people or those we don't agree with. 
Mostly I tell people when they did me wrong too. Good riddance if they stop coming around indeed.
(Just saw your comment now btw.)
Mostly I tell people when they did me wrong too. Good riddance if they stop coming around indeed.
(Just saw your comment now btw.)1 person likes this
@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
30 Sep 15
@owstalaga no worries, i get so lost here tryin' to catch all the responses, comments 'n such. yepperz, that walkin' 'way sure beats the need fer bail money 
no worries, i get so lost here tryin' to catch all the responses, comments 'n such. yepperz, that walkin' 'way sure beats the need fer bail money 1 person likes this
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
13 Sep 15
Me too, sometimes people are petty but of course that also makes us human. At least you found out what it was about. 
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@gudheart (12659)
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13 Sep 15
@owstalaga It made me think twice about being good friends with here, I don't like the way she talked to me about it either. I am going to distance myself from her now.
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@megamatt (14292)
• United States
13 Sep 15
I adopt a wait and see approach for people like this. Some people, you get a feeling something isn't right. But the feeling isn't right half of the time. Some people have something about them which just rubs you the wrong way. You can't put your finger on it, but they do.
I receive a few bad vibes, but I'm certain I've rubbed a few people the wrong way in my day. Not my intention, but hey, it happens. I try and apologize and make things right if it's not my intention. Because it rarely is my intention. Other people, I think they relish the fact they lead people around.
Over half of the time, my instincts about a person can be spot on. Only around half of the time, the other half, I can be off as the next person. But yeah, some people hit the wrong buttons, sometimes without realizing. Thus those bad vibes pop off.
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
13 Sep 15
Ouch that's harsh of them... Well yeah I also avoid people if they have negative auras.
@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 15
I hope I haven't sent any bad vibes to anyone! I have been on the receiving end though. How I deal with it? Learn from the past, forgive and not dwell on it too much. I'm still in good terms with that person, but I'm always careful not to put myself in the same situation again.
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@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
14 Sep 15
True. I however am trying to sort out that one situation where I give off the bad vibes. If nothing happens then at least I tried to do something about it.
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