He Pointed It Out To Me !
@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
September 13, 2015 10:49pm CST
This morning , as I was combing my hair at our bedroom , preparing to go out for the office , I was also listening and glancing at the morning TV show .
It was the part for all housewives’ concerns and their topic was the housewife being a nagger or a “bungangera” in our native language .
I chuckled 
because I was guilty of that , since sometimes I become a nagger (or maybe the right term is loudmouth ?) because my husband would be disorganized on things at the house .
And this morning , he was suddenly at the bedroom door , grinned and pointed out that the topic on TV was also applicable to me!
So , it was what he was also watching at the dining room , where he is drinking his coffee !
I just laughed out loud and he did too ! 
And when i kissed him goodbye to finally go to work , he teased me about it again and we both laughed out loud again .
Are you one or your partner is too ? 
because I was guilty of that , since sometimes I become a nagger (or maybe the right term is loudmouth ?) because my husband would be disorganized on things at the house .
And this morning , he was suddenly at the bedroom door , grinned and pointed out that the topic on TV was also applicable to me!
So , it was what he was also watching at the dining room , where he is drinking his coffee !
I just laughed out loud and he did too !
And when i kissed him goodbye to finally go to work , he teased me about it again and we both laughed out loud again .
Are you one or your partner is too ? 22 people like this
24 responses
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
14 Sep 15
I think most of the wives resort to nagging. ....lol. it is common practice between two partners coming from a different family background and different way of bringing up. Most of the wives want to prove that their husbands have lots of bad habits and they should improve themselves. . I am also not an exception. I also face nagging.
. I am also not an exception. I also face nagging. 1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
16 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD - I think if you check with every married woman, she wants to change habits of her husband.
Yes, even if someone is in relationship, they may nag occasionally, it is human nature.
Yes, even if someone is in relationship, they may nag occasionally, it is human nature. 1 person likes this
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
I agree that we have some bad habits of the husband that we want changed .
See, most of us here are naggers . That's basically one characteristic of a married woman . But i think those who are just into relationships even if not married yet , have this trait . 
See, most of us here are naggers . That's basically one characteristic of a married woman . But i think those who are just into relationships even if not married yet , have this trait . 1 person likes this
@vandana7 (100127)
• India
14 Sep 15
If you saw my house, you would wonder do I deserve to live in one? lol. Dad can make me extremely miserable about it, but then, I tell me, dad or neat house, if you could have only one of those, which would you choose? But trust me, there are times I cry when I look at the rooms.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
14 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD ..point one...no my room is not tidy. I don't see any point in keeping it neat either. I don't want to be looking around. That is what..point 2 ..dad is 81 but walky talky. He will not allow me to sell even newspapers. He has heaps of them. Have you ever come across a household that holds on to newspapers for 3 years. We do. He can get worked up and agitated so yes, I don't bother. As to loving dad, I would love him more if he let the house be neat and tidy.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16750)
• China
14 Sep 15
It must have been a TV show that make people roll on the floor laughing ,in which your hubby "had a field day with it ".A wife tends to go on about something at her hubby,but sometimes that does him a lot of good .
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
16 Sep 15
I think women and men both nag. I also think it is stereotypical to say that all women nag. It all comes down to a man understanding a woman. If they took the time to understand how a woman thinks and feels, things would be great between them.
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@cgalavia (1436)
• Philippines
14 Sep 15
Nagging is very common to us women,I feel powerful when nagging especially when my husband is quiet because of his fault.Usually I nag him when I'm angry or feeling irritated to him.
He said,I'm a nagger but for me I'm not because I've always been a silent person.He is just not used being nag by me.
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And that's because they know that we are going to tidy them up. 
@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 15
On a scale of 1 to 10, I'm probably somewhere around 4 or 5 at nagging, haha. I don't nag nonstop though. It's a woman thing, I guess.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Sep 15
@cahaya1983 Of course , there has to be a reason , or else my husband would get angry at me the moment he hears what i am to nag .
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD At least you have an excuse to nag, not nagging for nothing.
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@rashmiravishibu (84)
• Kollam, India
15 Sep 15
Understanding between the partners comes from experience and love for life and children
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@rashmiravishibu (84)
• Kollam, India
15 Sep 15
Children are well brought up physically, educationally and morally when they live happily with their parents. For that husband and wife should adjust each other a lot, help each other, no nagging and negative words in the house. Only positive energy. Then we can make our children efficient and powerful. Then there will be no behavioral problem, loneliness, cruelty, selfishness for our children. They will be the happiest. So partners should love, care and understand each other for making their children happy.
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@mkrnex (785)
• Bangalore, India
14 Sep 15
Pretty much every wife nags her hubby.It's a universal truth devoid of place,culture,religion.But it has a charm of its own which are loved by the husbands I guess.
But women also can't refrain themselves from nagging their husbands as they have copyright on it.In some situations it may lead to complications ,but not in the above situation though as they are cute pair in the making!!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Sep 15
Above pair , is it me and my husband or that one in the picture ? 
Yes, when nagging becomes unbearable then it can already create a problem . Nagging about petty things such as being disorganized is something that is tolerable and can be made into a laughing matter .
Yes, when nagging becomes unbearable then it can already create a problem . Nagging about petty things such as being disorganized is something that is tolerable and can be made into a laughing matter . 
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Sep 15
My husband is a natural joker that's why . And sometimes i get "pikon " too and would nag him about it when he does and the more e will laugh at me so i would just laugh also .
Husbands and wives should always be sweet in their own ways , like us that sometimes we just make a joke out of the matter.
Husbands and wives should always be sweet in their own ways , like us that sometimes we just make a joke out of the matter. 1 person likes this
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
14 Sep 15
I don't feel i nagged to my husband at the time..i feel i just needed help with the babies and i wasn't getting it..so i wound up doing everything myself and wondered why i needed him around..i left him soon after that..
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
Not sure if I'm really a nagger. What my husband complains more about me is that when I see any mistakes done, I would point it out repeatedly. He does' want to hear his mistakes over and over again. Does that qualify me as a nagger? That hardly happens though.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
Yes, repeating a mistake over and over again is nagging in the real sense of the word. Before i was like that . But i learned to bury the past and just live in the present .
Well, to most women nagging is already a natural aspect . 
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
15 Sep 15
My housewife is the opposite. My husband is nagger because he is more clean person. Whenever I clean house, he always finds a way to clean it again and saying I was doing wrong or it's not clean enough
It happens all the time and honestly it's annoying So I told him if he doesn't like my work, he can do it himself but no more protest
It happens all the time and honestly it's annoying So I told him if he doesn't like my work, he can do it himself but no more protest 1 person likes this
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
15 Sep 15
@SIMPLYD Hahaha... but too much perfectionist man is not good sometimes
@Angelee_27 (3460)
• United States
14 Sep 15
It sounds like you two have a very good relationship if you can pick around like that! I too am guilty of being a nagger. I think it almost comes naturally in a woman, LOL!
I too am guilty of being a nagger. I think it almost comes naturally in a woman, LOL!1 person likes this
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
Actually it is natural for a woman to nag . But some would overdo it so that's why husbands would retaliate also . 
But some would overdo it so that's why husbands would retaliate also . @AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
14 Sep 15
If I'm in a 'mood' then I nag....usually my husband is spot on and I don't have to but once in a blue moon....I let him have it!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
Nice to know that you have that kind of give and take nagging .
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Sep 15
It's great that you had such a laugh about it with your husband.
I'm not a nagger, but I get so riled when my husband says I am
. I mention something once, and he immediately says ''Don't keep going on about it!''
Grrr! I've only said it the once! (We love each other really)
I'm not a nagger, but I get so riled when my husband says I am. I mention something once, and he immediately says ''Don't keep going on about it!''
Grrr! I've only said it the once! (We love each other really)1 person likes this
