So I guess everything is going to be like before...
By hora_fugit
@hora_fugit (5862)
India
September 14, 2015 7:38am CST
Once upon a time I chanced upon a dime
When I checked in the myLot premises around 9 years ago, I was just trying to make a few cents in my spare time. Going was tough, I had somehow bungled one year of my life and needed something to look up for. Earning cents was one option. (Now now, don't laugh!)
So from somewhere I came to know about this site and joined, along with my sister. We had a nice arrangement where I opted to 'check it out' first and she would be my referral. The idea clicked and we both were happy. For sometime...
Then, she was angry. If you know how referral system worked earlier, you would understand. Anyway, it was a small problem and we got over it. But we couldn't get over the addiction myLot caused! Long forgotten was the money dream and we were just involved for the sheer fun of exchange.
And, mercifully, I got busy with my studies and other things and didn't get time for this obsession. For couple of years. Then everything got stable and I returned. And thus started the second bout of addiction.
This time I was little balanced though. Made some great friends like mysD, ever-changing Lamb and many more. With the mentioned two... even had the fight on seniority. Lost with one won over other. And life kept moving.
I had an issue regarding payments. While I spent good length of time here, most of it went in reading and just reading. Seldom did I reply and own posts were close to nil. And that meant no money generation. Who cared though...
So, one fine day I was back to the site. For the record, I am very irregular person and didn't log in for weeks those days. Hmm... so I came back and found someone from admin had insulted all the members and everyone was quitting in protest. Well, some were quitting for other reason too - no more payments.
I didn't care for payments much, but all my dear friends were gone. So I dived away too. Lonely in this world. Tried to get hold of others on other sites... but the feeling was never the same.
Then went to the unforgiving world of Tweeter (which I didn't like initially, had a dormant account) which myLot was copying in looks (again, my main grouse about new site). I blended in too.
Net effect was, I have become more rough then before and my old friends here may get shocked by that. Sorry in advance for all that. If ever you feel offended, please come and read this post again!
And then apocalypse started again. Good people from my contacts there started drifting away from me. And I don't follow bad people. So life was lonely. And myLot friends too weren't showing on other sites. Such a despair.
Today, by chance, I found a post by @vandana7 somewhere mentioning she made cameo on here. And I was intrigued as to what she could be doing on the disgraced site. So I came, I saw and I found out.... A party is already going on!
I won't pretend. I am hurt. None of the good friends I have ever invited me, ever broke the news to me. Even myLot didn't send a mail... but that I don't expect. I will not whine for this betrayal of trust in front of anyone... except for one person. You know who.
Back to the caption... I kept my feelings aside and started browsing through. And what I feel is that old days are back. That I will
- keep reading more and writing less
- again enjoy being here, with all the old emotions
- not be paid much
- get addicted, sooner or later (the gaga things they have done might help here, as pages don't load easily anymore)
That everything will be Just Like Before.
Thanks for reading through. Love you for that
Signing off...
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10 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Sep 15
I tried reaching out all I could.
Of course, I do agree, it was my fault too when I missed out many of my friends who went away and left me deserted here for a while.
But wait, why are we discussing the what it "was" here!!! Now that you are here and around, why not look up at the things that I going to happen. Welcome back.
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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
14 Sep 15
See I like you double! Not going to whine, had to make a post and that's it. Only happy faces now.
Still hunting that "one person" meanwhile.
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
18 Sep 15
As long as things are like they were before, can I just reply to the first and last sentences and not read anything in between as that would be too much like work? Or better yet, can I just reply to the title, even if that is not at all what the discussion is about?
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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
18 Sep 15
I know... the discussion is about ninja Hatori!
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
22 Apr 16
@hora_fugit Can't it at least be about words that I know, like the Kama Sutra or something?
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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
14 Sep 15
Thanks, but I came full of myself
Talking of address... reminds me of those cold sunny days when you lent a hand. Remember?
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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
14 Sep 15
@vandana7 you won't need that ;) goes directly to my g-mail.
From now on, will look here only for everyone. Other sites, doors closed | |
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@vandana7 (100604)
• India
14 Sep 15
@hora_fugit ..yes, but that was a mail here. I don't have your email address. :)
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@megamatt (14291)
• United States
14 Sep 15
It is amazing how everything comes full circle in some ways in life. I left myLot years ago after being several years. It was actually some time before payment had been suspended for a short time. I don't even remember the reasons why I left the first time. Likely because of burn out, and I intended to come back, and never did.
Still, the more things change, the more they stay the same .So I'm back, on a semi-regular basis. And many people are following me back. New faces and old faces a like are making their way onto the website. I'm adopting a wait and see approach. A bit rusty at the online posting game, after taking the summer off thanks to disappointments from elsewhere, but we shall see.
Still, I guess what is old can be new again.
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@vandana7 (100604)
• India
14 Sep 15
@hora_fugit ..I get to sound knowledgeable because I read what you write and don't bother with G. K. Chesterton. lol
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 15
That's quite a journey. I just joined and I have no idea about the kind of problems and conflict going on here before. But I guess all that matters is that everyone seems happy with the site's comeback and now all is good again (and will continue to be, I hope)! Welcome back
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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
19 Sep 15
Thank you :) I happen to fall easily in rant mode.
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@DaddyEvil (137605)
• United States
21 Apr 16
Hmmm... Many things I could say to you on this post... Not sure where to begin, YOU.
I have found many people new to me on this site and have gathered many more people as friends...
May I simply say that should people decide to leave myLot you will be one I will hope to take with me to where ever I go?
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@DaddyEvil (137605)
• United States
23 Apr 16
@hora_fugit Yes, you do talk! I just have to figure out what kind of thing to say to get you to talk to me about.
When I talk to you on your own threads, you will talk to me... Not so much on my threads, but that is okay. (One of these days I will figure out what to talk about that really interests you... THEN I will have to wonder how to shut you up, again! grinning and teasing you!)
Even someone who doesn't talk very much can say a lot in a few words. I like that and wish I knew how to do that, too.
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@Dragonairy1 (1722)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
15 Sep 15
That sounds like quite a journey on here, maybe it's the fate of all writing sites.
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