Long distance Relationship!
By prettygracey
@prettygracey (60)
Saudi Arabia
8 responses
@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
15 Sep 15
If you love the person enough, it surely will work. There are many migrant workers in distant lands, who have to stay distant, so that the fires burn in their hearths. They have to sacrifice intimacy to real love.
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@prettygracey (60)
• Saudi Arabia
15 Sep 15
It will be depends on the two persons who committed to each other. When the two are responsible enough with their words, everything might works good. Based on my experienced as a migrant worker , that sometimes you really feel the sadness and loneliness maybe the reasons why other man/woman can't able to handle temptations that end up to breaking up.
@prettygracey (60)
• Saudi Arabia
15 Sep 15
@gregario888 your right! Sincerity in loving someone even far or near is a key to maintain being honest with each other.
@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
15 Sep 15
@prettygracey In relationships, sincerity counts.
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@helenrich (59)
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15 Sep 15
I have a little experience in long distance relationships, and it was a positive one. From my point of view, they work as long as you are prepared to put the time and effort into it. If you genuinely love the person you are in the relationship with, then it will last.
My advice would be:
1. Talk on the phone every other day, not every day - give each other space to some degree.
2. Make the effort to meet once a week, or at least once a month.
3. Keep your faith and trust in the other person.
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@prettygracey (60)
• Saudi Arabia
15 Sep 15
Hi Helen! It's nice to hear that the story of your long distance relationship is pretty good. I'm you and your man that your relationship last until forever.
Thank you to your advice and sharing your story.
It's really between trust and faith, and now in computer generation there are lots of easy ways of communications unlike the old times when only the snail mails exist.
But what if you will meet him after years?
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
I don't think it'll work for me. I had LD relationships before and it didn't work.
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
15 Sep 15
It can work. Friends of mine separated by thousands of miles for many years and only meeting once or twice a year finally united in the UK and married recently. Sadly it is more common for such relationships not to work though.
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@prettygracey (60)
• Saudi Arabia
15 Sep 15
Your friend's relationship is one example of real love exist through miles that is really nice.
That's really true some didn't work, but that's is love people might probably experience pain.
@sheera143 (13)
• Allahabad, India
16 Sep 15
I also live in long distance relationship for 3 year and according to me it is not good. in this the cheating rate is very high so stay away from this
@prettygracey (60)
• Saudi Arabia
16 Sep 15
That's sad to hear, anyway maybe she is not the one that is destined for you. Stay positive !
@prettygracey (60)
• Saudi Arabia
17 Sep 15
@sheera143 I am in the stage of thinking and analyzing if I am ready to love and trust someone.
@teresaschultz (50)
• East London, South Africa
27 Feb 16
A long distance relationship can test one's love for one another. If it was meant to be, the long distance relationship will be relatively easy - there are many ways to keep in touch with somebody far away. That said, however, even a difficult long distance relationship can turn out well, if the two people love one another enough to stay faithful, and love one another enough to keep trying to get to be with one other (or to be with each other again if they've already met and spent time together).