How you feel when your heart is broken?

The feeling is bad I know. During that time, you are trying to persuade yourself to move on and do not reflect on the things passing by. All the things have been the past, we are unable to change past things, all we can do is to work on our future. But no matter how reasonable these words are, we still cannot control our thought. The heart feel twisted, the feet feel heavy to take a step forward. The appetite is even bad and cannot bite anything. But time will change everything, do not try to avoid the sadness, just try to live a normal life as before. With time passing by, you will feel better but there is still existing scar which will not matter anymore, it will just a reminder of your past.

The one thing needed is patience. Time can heal any wound, however deep it the pain is. The girl I had infatuation with eloped with another man when I was 20 and that pain stood with me for 12 years. Then I got a job. I took an M.A at 40. I try to develop all my skills now. For men, career growth is the best solution for depression, in my opinion.

Once you realise that life has a lot more to offer and start taking each day as it comes and put your self into your work and what needs to be done, you will see that it becomes easier to come to terms with your heart break.Try to be with friends and people who you feel secure with instead of brooding alone , it rreally helps !

It feels bad. You run out of options. You don't see what to do and what to avoid. You don't get the idea of things to do in life. It is really hard to get the heart out of things these days. So set the expectation low and move on. Most of the things that we want to do in our life. That being said, life is not that easy as they say it may appear beautiful but it is not that rosy.

What a beautiful soul you have. Being so sensitive that you become broken just shows how much your not afraid to show your big heart. I usually take a sheet of paper and write out what I feel. If the first sentence is I can't do this anymore, I leave the first three letters alone and the last two letters alone. Then, I cross out the letters that aren't the first three or last two and the sentence reads 'I care.' When the tears pour out, they land on my mouth. I can taste salt and since salt is used to make food better I know that I as a person can become better. Then I get my coloring box out and break the crayons in my frustration. Then I color with the broken crayons so I can tell my broken heart that broken crayons love to color. They say time heals wounds,but personally I don't want mine to heal. I want all of my wounds to stay open so I'll have a reminder of the deeper my depression went, the more my mind thought about things that some people didn't think about, which is still good,in terms of self-originality. The more wounds remain, the more I remember they all brought about creative lessons and lessons that can help encourage others. Stay strong! God gives His toughest battles to His strongest soldiers and just like how we may wonder why He didn't give us the answer we wanted to a prayer, we can compare that to a student who endures the teacher being quiet during a test. God loves you.^_^