Listening to Stories from the Past

By Val
@valmnz (17097)
New Zealand
September 23, 2015 1:37pm CST
Yesterday I had the privilege and pleasure of interviewing two older ladies for the research I'm doing. They were both very alert and happy to share their experiences with me. Not only did I gather information that was useful, but also got quite an insight into what their lives had been like when they were children. Stories from the past are important, not only those of our families, but also of the community we live in. It is stories about daily lives that build up a social history of the past. Have you made time to listen to the stories of older people, either in your family or your community? It's never to late to start finding out more about your family and the lives they lead in the past. Make sure you write those stories down, so that they're not lost forever.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
23 Sep 15
I AM the older person in our family , but I remember a lot of tales from my parents and grandparents. I wrote about a lot of them on the other site.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
24 Sep 15
My husband and I are now the older generation too. Only my brother is older.
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• United States
23 Sep 15
how delightful! i adore hearin' the elderly's tales. one'f my fav's was a sweet lady who was 103 when she passed. i was a caretaker fer her fer nearly 5 years. kinda adopted her into the family actually 's hers didn't wish to spend the time. loved hearin' 'f her travels 'pon great ships, the hardships 'f the depression 'n her 'bunch' runnin' 'round chasin' lawrence welk shows, lol.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
23 Sep 15
Yes, that was a wonderful era she would have belonged to. I'm sure you also many great stories to pass on to anyone interested!
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
23 Sep 15
@crazyhorseladycx hope those kicks aren't from your horses we love your stories here, as they are different from the lives many of us lead.
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• United States
23 Sep 15
@valmnz maybe so? none'f the family's much interest in my tales, but strangers kinda get a kick outta 'em.
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Sep 15
I worked in a nursing home for many years. I truly enjoyed talking to the residents there. I love to imagine people as they see themselves inside, as the young children and then young adults that they were.
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Sep 15
@valmnz It's terrible that we can't see people as they see themselves. We see the outside and think old. They think how they played hookey from school or danced the night away at the school dance. I bet she still feels the same inside as she ever did.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
24 Sep 15
@Rollo1 she was very active, I hope i'm like her at her age.
@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
24 Sep 15
I had the 84 year old yesterday giggling about meeting the boys at the baths
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
24 Sep 15
I always listen to my Mom's stories, she is the eldest in her family and she also tell stories about her brothers, sisters and grandparents. It is interesting to compare the past to the present. Right this morning I was saying to my husband that I regret I did not take note of what ma uncles and aunties said me in the past. Two of my uncles were professional bakers, how I would love to have written their tips and recipes.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
26 Sep 15
@LadyDuck great idea. But we all have only so much time in spite of our good intentions.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
Have you started writing down your Mothers stories Anna?
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
26 Sep 15
@valmnz Some of them, but I have to write more and I also want to check the photo albums to collect the old photos of places and people.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Sep 15
I always listened to my Gran her stories of her travels. Now I listen to my Mom, who talks of her Great Gran. When we have family gatherings, my Uncles will also tell of family history. It is fascinating to me, and has shown me how truly blessed we are to lead the lives we lead today.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
23 Sep 15
It certainly gives us a better understanding of how we live now. And your country has had some interesting times.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
23 Sep 15
@bluesa I was listening to an interesting talk the other day by a South African man about Shaka and the Zulus.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Sep 15
@valmnz , yes, the Boer war alone, then there was also the Battle of Blood River. War and strife. It is amazing anyone survived, so we could be here today.
@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
23 Sep 15
thats one of the things love doing, the way they tell the story and you imagine every thing they say , in the same places you live in , but you have the chance to see it in a different time and view , it adds to your thinking a new prospective of life i had the chance to meet some but wasnt long enough to hear much ,
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
23 Sep 15
Even older family members are worth talking to about the past.
@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
23 Sep 15
@valmnz yes , but most of them passed away m in my case , and the others living in another country, so its not easy to do :) but i had a chance to sit by a nice lady , she told me about the times when she was young during the WW2 , i love listening to those memories
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
23 Sep 15
@Salamnda that's great. Yes, times were definitely different then. I'm glad you listened.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
24 Sep 15
I was the listener in my family, but sadly have not written down or recorded much. I wish I had tape recordings of my grandmother and my first husband's grandmother. Grandma Alta was orphaned early on. Grandma Mable went from covered wagon to jet airplane in her life time.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
It's not too late to get a notebook and start writing down the stories you remember.
@glenniah (1197)
• Mandurah, Australia
24 Sep 15
I had a Great Aunt who used to tell me stories about my family when I was much younger. I really wish I had listened more to her . She was the family historian in our family. I love to talk to older people, mind you I am getting up there now too.
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@glenniah (1197)
• Mandurah, Australia
1 Oct 15
@valmnz ; I have found a link to old newspaper stories it is called Trove, There is some interesting info on Australians there
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
1 Oct 15
@glenniah I love the way the older stories are coming to light. The discussions I went to in Melbourne were excellent for that.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
Like you, my family previous generation has gone, and I've been trying to write down the few things I can remember being told.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
23 Sep 15
Since all of my grandparents have passed i can only go by what i remember or what my older sibs tell me of certain things.. I wish it was required for all young ones to sit and interview their grandparents..cause after they are gone, so is your past..
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
24 Sep 15
@valmnz I try to tell my younger grands and i hope they continue being curious
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
24 Sep 15
@Rosekitty some of them will, some of them won't after a while. But a long as at least one person in each family listens,
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
23 Sep 15
Yes, my husband and I are the older generation in the family now and make sure we tell stories to our son. My father passed on many stories to us kids.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
24 Sep 15
@valmnz,Yes,I am one among those who immensely love listening to and reading about stories of and about the past,about our forefathers,their lifestyle,their way of thinking and about how they managed to do things.I love reading history.My favourite channel is 'epic.'This channel tells stories of the past,of great kings,great patriots,traitors,old traditions etc.My elders have related to me stories about my grandfather,great grandfather and how they migrated here,how they settled here and earned both money and respect.....All this is really so interesting.I have already written about my grandparents and also the history of the old house we now live in.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
That's great that you've been writing your family stories
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
26 Sep 15
@valmnz I have observed one problem that arises while writing.I don't like to exaggerate.No spicing up.Incidents should be presented in the same way they took place.And it's not easy.I am writing these stories in my mother tongue Hindi.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
26 Sep 15
@else34 I'm glad you're writing them in your mother tongue for future generations.
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@ko31024 (492)
• Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia
24 Sep 15
I like to hear some stories from past :)
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
Good. Have you thought about writing them down?
@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
24 Sep 15
I like talking to the older generation and hearing their stories of where they were during world war 2. My one relative was in London during the bombing runs, and was telling me about the terror of the explosions and shaking buildings. Just hoping the building she was in wasn't next. I have gathered other similar stories from other people I know, but from different perspectives.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
Have you written their stories down?
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
@OneOfMany start recording them now, so you don't regret it later.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
25 Sep 15
@valmnz No, they are only in my head vaguely, and the full details are with them.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
23 Sep 15
Yes I love it... as a health care assistantfor our elderly folk, I chat and reminisce with them, they love to talk about bygone days ...and like you said you get a glimpse of what life used to be like.... From people with many different backgrounds...
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
24 Sep 15
Good on you. They no doubt appreciate it too.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
@sueznewz2 I'm having trouble getting the older ones to talk about the daily stuff from the baths. They think its too boring to put in a book, but don't realise it's the kind of thing I need.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
24 Sep 15
@valmnz ohh yes.... they do love to share their stories, about the life before, during and after the wars. They were hard times..but most of the time it brings back happy memories from within those times...
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@Ranuka (273)
• India
24 Sep 15
yes, stories of our elders contain their experiences. So always very useful for present youth generation.
@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
One day others may be grateful to read or hear those stories.
@allknowing (136525)
• India
24 Sep 15
i have noticed one thing and that is the younger generation is not much into discussing their past. But when seniors meet. The conversation normally starts with 'Remember?.................
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
24 Sep 15
their time will come.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
24 Sep 15
The first thing that I find very essential and worth mentioning is one has to be a listener. As I grew up, I always loved listening to stories of the past from my grandparents. Eventually, when I grew up, and got to have a small association with an Old Age Home, I spend hours visiting them and listening to their stories. Somewhere I do believe that the stories from the past definitely play a role in shaping up your today - the way you are, the way you think and lots more. I have had a thought of writing down the life as I see it but to be honest, I have been hesitant believing there is/would be no one interested. As I read your post, a positive thought comes to me that so what if no one would be interested in reading mine, at least I will be happy reading it someday in future. Let me think about it and maybe I will give it a go
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
Don't worry whether anyone will be initially interested. Get a journal and start writing. No need to worry about order, or being correct with the writing process. Just write. That's how my journey started.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
23 Sep 15
When those kind of things are lost, it's sad. I wish someone had recorded grandpa and great grandpa's stories before they were gone.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
23 Sep 15
I don't think we realised the importance of it in the past.
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@mom210 (9117)
• United States
24 Sep 15
I love to listen to stories from older people, especially if they were int he war or the great depression. The things they learned to do and survive!
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
25 Sep 15
There's a lot of remarkable things we can learn from older generations.
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@Dragonairy1 (1722)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
24 Sep 15
That sounds like fun, I love listening to other people's stories although I don't do it very often nowadays x
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
24 Sep 15
I'm lucky in that I get the opportunity to mix with a wide range of older people at the moment.
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