How happy are you?

you said it your self ,, things not under your control, then just think about what its under your control and do the best you can and leave the rest , you will feel happier :) i liked it in here to , great topics and discussions and i keep learning many things

@Salamnda Mylot has a way for keeping me entertained so to speak, and I don't think about my problems. I just concentrate on what I am doing in here, giving an answer to the comments and responses.

That is sweet thing to say. :) Hope you are happy soon.

think of this ,,, that every thing will pass , and you will not remember what happened today , as you dont feel what happened when you hurt your finger first time , the pain was momentarily and its gone now, i am not sure if i explained it right but i do this all the time , when its hard time , i think that it will not remain and it will passed like every thing else all i do is to do my best to act the best as i can and leave the rest and never think about it the next day i see as its never happened :)

@Salamnda Thank you. Your completely right. I am indeed coping up right now and somehow its as if I've pass the stage of withdrawal from broken heart. I'm more focus on loving myself more now. Though there still a lot of worries about the future and stuff and I guess this part is what keeps bothering me to the point of being preoccupied and unsatisfied with life but like you said, I'll just have to be motivated and live on.

@joygracia , the future is in the future and you need to think about what you need to do in the day you are living, so when the future comes it will be another " today" and when it comes you do the best you can ,,, we only live the moment we are in , past is gone future is yet to come , yes be motivated and think about the things you can do now , while you have more experience in life

Wonderfull , i wish you complete to be 10/10 :)

that makes it 10 :) when you smile , you will make other smile to , so you spread happiness :)

thats great :)

well said ,,, the negativity in many people , prevents them from seeing the positive sides of their lives,

@Salamnda yea I feel better now. thanks friend.

i tell you that ,,, you dont need your friends to be happy , your happiness is inside you , and if you have it ,, you will be happy with or without friends , and be confident that you will be happy if you want to be :)

its is ... but we need to do the things that will make us feel satisfied about our life and actions ... and mostly help others to get happiness :)

@Salamnda Thanks. I did not undergo the knife only because I have a positive thought that before it turns into cancer, the medics will find a cure for the illness - Ulcerative Colitis. If not, then anyway, they would remove the colon. So let it stay and let me live life

@thesids wish you well :)

hope you get it away and be well all the time in some cases if we think about illness as a reminder of how health is a blessing, might be good way to fight it and live it to the point where it will be just pass and you will be much better

@Salamnda Thank you. Sometimes people confuse happy people with people who have no problems. I think that happiness is a choice and if you have positive thinking you can actually make a good outcome from most sad things that may happen every day.

@besweet there is a saying by mohammed PBUH" the things that happen to a believer is always good , if something bad happened to him and he was patient and didnt complain, thats good for him if something good happened to him and he was thankful ... thats good for him " :)

being positive means your walking in happiness :)

thats a good score :) 2 to complete

I m having depression also, please tackle your main problem and everything will be improve better.

@wongchoiyee you can come over at and you win :)

you can sit , in a quite place , and think with your self, and have a paper and pen to write what ever comes to your mind , think about you ,, your self , what your doing in this life , why your here , what is your purpose , ahy every thing around you is in harmony when its left to nature , its nature , think till you find your self inside and know the answers you have inside you , you will find those questions ,,, and you will have the answers

it depends on every one of us, but mostly there is a connection between things that makes humans happy , one of them is the gift. and care from loved ones, money , the moment when you get it , helping the needy ,,, many things