First driving experience.

@topffer (42156)
France
September 28, 2015 10:15am CST
Yesterday night the French police at Le Havre arrested a young driver. The kid was 10 years old and was driving the car of his mother with his 5 years old brother on a booster seat on the rear of the car. Their mother was dinning with friends, and they took the keys of her car when the baby-sitter was sleeping. I was younger than him, maybe 7 or 8, when I sat on the driver seat of the car of my dad, one day that we were fishing. I removed the handbrake, and the car started to run, but in the wrong direction, right to the river. It was not very deep, but my dad had to walk to a farm to ask the help of a tractor to remove the car from the river. He was angry and forbid me to drive his car again. Do you remember your first experience with a car ?
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
28 Sep 15
ouch. that was dangerous. lucky that nothing severe happened. I dont know how and what of it but I have faint memories of the first (and probably the only incident with car) - I had got into the car front seat to hide from someone (dont remember why and from whom). The car was parked in the garage but they keys were right in and I had turned it on. Next thing I remember is a loud noise and breaking of glass. Grandpa and his employees came rushing, and I was taken out of car. Grandpa was angry at me for behaving that way and send off the car for repairs.( I think both the headlights were damaged). Oh yes, I should also mention I was around 4-5 back then. Since then I have never been on the drivers seat in any car.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
28 Sep 15
@hereandthere yes, but it was completely unintentional. I forget the reason why I was hiding and from whom. and I had never thought that turning that key to the right would do all wrong
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
Another stupid accident. You beat me, you were younger when you had your first accident. You don't have a driving license ? You never considered to buy a car ? It is rare today, except for people living in large cities with good public transport.
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• Philippines
28 Sep 15
oh my goodness, you're even younger than @topffer when it happened!
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
28 Sep 15
Greetings, topffer. My first driving experience was a few years ago. I was somewhere between 19 and 21 years old. It was already in the driving school, to obtain the license. Before that I had never driven a car. And I have to say that I was pretty much awful at that. I'm still not the best driver around, I have to confess. Driving is not my thing, hahaha. Wow, you drove quite early, eh? At that age, I would have no idea of even how to pull the hand brake. I imagine how mad your father must have been at that occasion. Wow, mine would literally go insane, hahahaha. The best part is that the children in France are alright and so were you! Respectfully.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
The kid was running at first speed, and has been lucky enough to not have an accident. I pulled the handbrake by accident and I did not knew how to stop the car. My legs were not long enough to touch the pedals. I waited to have my driving license (I was 18 years old) to drive a car again. I am not also the best driver around.
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
28 Sep 15
I didn't drive a car until I had my learner's permit at 16. I didn't even try. I have always been a stickler for rules.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
I was not following all the rules when I was a kid, but here I was "quite" innocent : I was just playing in the car.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
28 Sep 15
woow...driving at such an early age.it would be curious to see what punishment will the parent get
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
I don't know how he learned to drive, but I don't think that the mother can be held responsible, as she paid a baby-sitter for her children. The kid drove the car at first speed during only 1 km before being arrested by the police. Fortunately, he did not caused any accident.
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• Romania
28 Sep 15
@topffer yes a real disaster could have happened. I imagine the scare of those parents
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@jstory07 (140093)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Sep 15
You were bad since the car ended up in the river. My brother and I took my Dad's jeep up in the mountains with his permision and we for got to put the brakes on and the car went down a hill. My dad had to send a tow truck up in the mountains to get the jeep back for us. We had no money.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
I was just playing in the car, and I did not knew how to stop it, but your brother certainly should have known. Well, it was certainly not a more funny experience for you than for me. Since my river experience, I know that the best to do is to find a farm and ask for some help with a tractor. I did it a few years ago when I got stuck in a swamp (I had missed my way) and I found a farmer that helped me. In a mountain it would be probably more difficult to find somebody to help.
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@LadyDuck (472160)
• Switzerland
28 Sep 15
First I have to say that I do not own a driver license, but I drove a little the first year I got married. I can understand your father was not very happy of your first try.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
Yup, it was a bit early but I was ahead of my years. Well, I was playing in the car, and it was a stupid accident.
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• United States
28 Sep 15
First, I want to say that it was very admirable of the boy to make sure that his brother was in a booster seat ... at least he was thinking that he was being safe. Second, my first experience driving was in my dad's truck when I was very young ... probably only two or three years old. He would sit me on his lap and let me steer the truck down the driveway. It was very exciting, although I realize now that it was not really driving.
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• United States
28 Sep 15
@topffer Maybe his brother was sick, and he was trying to get him to the hospital and didn't want to take the time to wake the babysitter? I will have to tell my dad that you are angry that he did not also give me wheelchair driving experience when he was allowing me to drive the truck. I am sure that my sister also wishes that I had more experience with a wheelchair as I almost dumped her out of hers a time or two.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
@purplealabaster If it was that, it would be touching. If I can learn more about the reason why he took the car during the night, I will tell you. He had perhaps a very good reason, at least for him. I am glad to see that I am not alone to complain about your way to push wheelchairs .
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• United States
28 Sep 15
@topffer A ten year old joyriding in the middle of the night with his brother in a booster seat seems a little suspicious, especially since you said that the police took them to the hospital. I could totally see him joyriding during the day, because children get bored and curious, but at night with such caution for safety sounds like there might be more to the story than just a mischievous child. My sister was not at all amused at the time, but we both laughed about it later! In my defense, though, some of the problems were sidewalks that had not been properly cared for, and it is easy to get a wheel caught on a block sticking up too far or jerk forward when there is a hole that is overgrown with weeds and not noticeable until the chair was stuck in it.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
28 Sep 15
gosh you're even younger than him. was your father's car an automatic or manual back then? did you jump out of the car before it reached the water?
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
We have quite no automatic cars here, and it was not one. I pulled the handbrake by accident, and the car started to descend the grade to the river backwards. Only the back of the car went in the water, and there was less than 2 feet of water, but the exhaust was under the water and it was impossible to start the car without damaging the engine. After this, my father was closing his car, even in the garage.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
28 Sep 15
@hereandthere I remember the car going in the river and how my father was angry, but I don't remember the fishes. He was good at fishing, and we generally were coming back with enough fish for a dish or two. Now that I am aging, I consider times to times to pay for a fishing license, but I have quite never held a fishing rod since I was a kid, and I doubt I would get a lot of fishes.
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• Philippines
28 Sep 15
and did you catch any fish that day?
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• Williamsburg, Virginia
29 Sep 15
My dad taught me how to drive. It was in the red car he bought me. I was 15.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
We will perhaps have soon a driving license at 16 here, but for the moment it is still at 18 years old. It is a bit stupid as we can have a license for 125 cc motorbikes at 16 years old, and I think that a motorbike is more dangerous than a car.
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• Williamsburg, Virginia
29 Sep 15
@topffer I agree. I think motorbikes are more dangerous. I can't believe that they allow age 16 to ride them.
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
29 Sep 15
Some experience! though I steered a jeep once for some ten or fifteen km, when I was your age, but all the while was sitting in the lap of my dad. To this day, I haven't learned driving! though I intend to take it up, in the coming weeks, if time permits.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
If my father had learned me to steer his car on his lap like you, maybe I would have been able to stop it. Many people living in large cities here have no driving licenses. But it is impossible to not have one when we have to work in the countryside, and there is no or not enough public transports.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 15
My first experience was when I was old enough to actually know what I was doing, so nothing bad happened, fortunately. Good that the river wasn't very deep when you drove the car into it!
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
@hereandthere I have been the captain of a small motor boat when a large flood occurred in a town where I was working (you could even enter in the cathedral with a boat). The mayor mobilized all the employees of the town (I was working there as an archaeologist), and they gave me a small motor boat during 2 days to help people trapped in their home to go to safe places. I had no license to do it though, and after 2 days I was replaced by a fireman sent from another city to help. It was an interesting experience.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
The car was at the good place to not sink completely with his captain. In other places this river can be very deep. I had a lot of luck.
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• Philippines
29 Sep 15
@topffer so now you can tell people oh, i was a captain once
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@gudheart (12659)
29 Sep 15
I do and it went okay for my first time behind the wheel, although I had a driving instructor that was controlling the second steering wheel so he probably prevented me from crashing a few times!!
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
Instructors don't take a lot of risks with beginners. I spent my first driving lesson on a motorway. I suppose he wanted to evaluate me (I had already a driving license for motorbikes).
@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
29 Sep 15
yea i was working grave yard when i had my drivers test and i just come off work passed it with flying colors i was so tired it really was surprising
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
We often surpass ourselves during an exam. For my driving test I managed to do at first time a perfect parallel parking. I never managed to do it since.
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• Vancouver, Washington
29 Sep 15
@topffer yes it can be the parallel parking i had a problem with that and my back window was out had plastic on it i was really surprised how that happened
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• Quezon City, Philippines
29 Sep 15
My first driving experience is when I was 12 years old.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
It was very young Carl. You stole the car of your mother, like the kid that the police arrested ?
@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
@intal_carl That's nice, you have a good dad. I see on your profile that you are 17. What is the legal age for a driving license for cars in Philippines ? In France, it is 18.
• Quezon City, Philippines
29 Sep 15
@topffer No, my dad is the one who was very eager to teach me on how to drive our car. I can say that my dad is very supportive because I can now drive on major highways in our country and I have my own license so I"m a an official driver right now.
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@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
11 Oct 15
Oh dear, I bet that baby sitter was fired! Growing up in the country we learn to drive at an early age. My parents would sit me on their lap when I was a tot and I would help steer. As I got older I got to drive on the dirt road that we lived on. Of course there was always a tractor or a lawn mower to drive/ride on. I never got into any trouble vehicle wise. Now my 6 year old son is a different story. At the ripe old age of 3 he knocked my husbands truck out of gear in the yard and rolled it right down the hill into some small trees. My husband always let him play in the truck, mess with the steering wheel as if he was driving. Well one day that back fired on him! Lil Keith knocked it into neutral and since it was sitting on a slant it started rolling. The really scary thing is how fast it was going and the fact that he got scared and jumped out of the truck as it was rolling. Fortunately he did not get run over by the truck. Scared the heck out of me and hubby The truck was easy to get out of the trees and it had a few scratches on it but thankfully the truck and Lil Keith were both fully intact.
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@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
11 Oct 15
@topffer The incident gave us a few more grey hairs that is for certain. No more playing in the vehicles and the emergency break is always on just in case someone sneaks in while we have our backs turned.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
11 Oct 15
The baby sitter was certainly responsible and could have had troubles with the justice, but I don't think they sued her. The story of your son is scary. He could have hurt himself or could have been hurt by the truck when he jumped out. It could have been a disaster. I suppose that you don't let him play in the truck now.
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@much2say (56226)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Oct 15
Oh my gosh! Does that also count as the first time you ever steered a boat? I was never completely behind the wheel on my own - but on occasion my dad did let me steer from the side (with him supervising of course) - and that felt pretty cool!
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@much2say (56226)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Oct 15
@topffer You've heard that expression when you first experience something - they call it "getting your feet wet" - well, looks like with driving you got the car wet - ha ha!
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@topffer (42156)
• France
2 Oct 15
@much2say I did not knew the expression, but I am sure that I will remember it.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
2 Oct 15
Fortunately, only the back of the car felt in the water, so it was not completely a boat. I read that many members had a first experience like yours with their father, and that it was cool, but the only thing cool in mine was the water. My father never offered me to drive his car after this before I reached my 40's.
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@sofssu (23662)
29 Sep 15
Oh wow.. French people seem to love their kids driving I guess, even if it s by accident.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
We can drive a car only at 18 years old (16 for 125 cc motorbikes), and I suppose that the police was surprised. When the car of my father felt in the water, it was a stupid accident : I was playing inside, and I did not knew how to stop it.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Sep 15
@sofssu I was not sure that you were teasing.
@sofssu (23662)
29 Sep 15
@topffer I was just teasing!
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@TheHorse (220468)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Oct 15
Yep. I was about 14 and driving around on dirt roads in Montana. My older brother was teaching me how to drive.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
7 Oct 15
It looks like you already knew how to drive when you obtain your driver's license.
@topffer (42156)
• France
8 Oct 15
@TheHorse I never drove anything else. Automatic gearboxes are rare here.
@TheHorse (220468)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Oct 15
@topffer Yes, but I didn't learn to drive a stick until I bought my second car. Now, I always drive a stick.
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@babaraimc (1310)
• Pakistan
8 Nov 15
i will experience when i will get my first Cars
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@topffer (42156)
• France
8 Nov 15
No early experience ? You are quite an exception in this discussion.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
8 Nov 15
@babaraimc Maybe you are ahead of your time. I am moving in a semi-pedestrian area and I have decided to sell my car, as it would be impossible to park it near my home.
@babaraimc (1310)
• Pakistan
8 Nov 15
@topffer its sad :-(
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@Shiva49 (26789)
• Singapore
6 Jan 16
The first time I drove an automatic car (without gears) was unforgettable for me. Though there was no clutch, my foot went for the break and that resulted in the car coming to halt suddenly - luckily the car behind was not too close! siva
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@topffer (42156)
• France
6 Jan 16
The clutch pedal was lacking? I learned to drive with a real gearbox, and I dislike automatic cars. I quite had an accident when I passed a car the first time I drove an automatic car : it is impossible to get a strong acceleration during a few seconds to pass another vehicle like in a "normal" car (or I am missing something).
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@Shiva49 (26789)
• Singapore
7 Jan 16
@topffer My brother tells me when he puts his car on cruise control he tends to fall asleep and crash sensor gets activated sometimes! So maybe we need driverless cars sooner than we think- siva
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@Shiva49 (26789)
• Singapore
7 Jan 16
@topffer Let us not become a guinea pig! We are marching ahead with robots taking over our lives, but the basics of life, especially the meanness, does not show any respite! siva
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