If you are in your 50's or 60's, is it what you thought it would be when you were younger?

September 29, 2015 9:18am CST
Well....that's a loaded question! I am 58 and I can tell you this is not what I expected! LOL Not in a bad way necessarily but definitely not what I thought! I am probably working harder now than when I was in my 20's!! But I do love what I do! How about you?
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
30 Sep 15
Hanging on to the last year of my 60s and loving it. Best years of my life!
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
30 Sep 15
@happytails not trying to do what others think I should so must being myself
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30 Sep 15
woo hoo Val!!! So glad to hear that! What do you think is the best thing about your age?
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30 Sep 15
@valmnz Exactly! I think that is the key!!!
• United States
29 Sep 15
Honestly suddenly I was here at this age. I never thought about what it would be like, so I had no expectations funnily enough. I would say that my life is not satisfactory to me though ...
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29 Sep 15
I know what you mean @TiarasOceanView! I feel that way sometimes....seems I was 30 and then BAM, here I am in my fifties!! I can't say my life is not satisfactory it's just different than I imagined. Thanks for responding Ocean Tiara! Hope to chat again!
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• United States
29 Sep 15
@happytails Welcome always Debra..yes time flys by so fast. I guess if we have good memories it helps to ease some of that dissatisfaction in life.
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@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
1 Oct 15
where are my flying cars! I expected flying cars!
@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
30 Oct 15
@happytails Its not just Back to the Future... I've been reading SF since the '60's, there have been predictions of flying cars since the 1950's!
3 Nov 15
@ElicBxn I know! It would be cool it a lot that was predicted were true!! lol
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29 Oct 15
@ElicBxn lol I saw that movie too! Back to The Future, it's strange was set for this month in 2015, and yep, we are supposed to have hover boards, self lacing shoes and yes, flying cars!
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@jerzgirl (9291)
• United States
30 Oct 15
Hell no!!! I'm going to be 61 in 15 days and I swore early on I'd never get old, that my mother was old, not me. Mom's gone and my body is telling me "the joke's on you, girl!"
3 Nov 15
@jerzgirl lol!!! I understand! I have always said 'I will never grow old' and like you I'm beginning to wonder!! Lol but I do love life! I believe I will live to be at least 99!!!! Keep that zest for life! And Happy Birthday!!!
@jerzgirl (9291)
• United States
3 Nov 15
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
30 Sep 15
Honestly, many things worked out better than what I thought though some dreams still remain unfulfilled. Some pains were never expected but happened. However, they are behind me so to say because now I can look at them clinically rather than emotionally. I know god will take care of me, however much I have disappointed him because he is the one who sent me tougher than what I could manage situations to me.
30 Sep 15
Well said! @vandana7 I believe that alot of things that have happened, all things actually, have led me to where I am. I truly LOVE what I do. Granted right now I am struggling but I believe I'll get there.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
30 Sep 15
I'm almost 22 (my birthday is tomorrow) and I love it ahaha
@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
1 Oct 15
Happy Birthday! 22 when when I really started living. Moved out of my folks, got my first cat...
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
30 Sep 15
@happytails Did you enjoy being 22?
30 Sep 15
Ah yes.....22....I remember it so well!! lol Happy Birthday @fufurinha! And thank you for sharing!
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@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
30 Sep 15
i really didn't have any expectations either and so i did a solo flying lesson but you know its great anyway
30 Sep 15
@softbabe44 I don't know what my expectations were exactly. I think I thought I would be settled, have my own home, etc. but things didn't work out that way.