Men and Women don't Speak the same language.

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Clearly its funny to know that men and women don't speak the same language. We do not speak the same language. Women talk in circles while men talk in straight lines. That's not a criticism, its just an observation. When a woman is worried about something, she talks around it...what she's talking about is not whats on her mind. She will keep going around it 3 or 4 times and then she will land. And that's why when you answer her while she's circling she gets upset because what you answered her about is not even whats she's worried about. You know, most women process by communication. When something is really worrying a woman, she wants to talk about it. But men process in seclusion...we don't like to talk. When something is really bothering a man, the more it bothers him the less he says about it. I guess this is what leads to argument, especially in the home because as a woman circles around and the man says nothing then she thinks he don't care. Well just because we don't verbalize does not mean we don't care. When we really care we internalize. And our silence doesn't mean we don't care, it means we're equally as worried as you are but we just process it differently.That's why the problem that you bring to him on Monday, you can't get anything out of his mouth until on Thursday evening then he walks up to you and be like "you know, the thing you told me about that day......" meaning that he was in a cave processing what he thought should be done about it all Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. So by Friday morning he shows up and comes up to you....now he's ready to talk....lol. But most times when women talk to men, they often talk to them like they are women.....forgetting that we are not the same. So you may be talking to your son, husband, boyfriend or colleague like he's a woman and getting no results from him simply because you're talking around something and he don't even know what in the world you are saying.