How you deal with the bullying in the school?

@Salamnda (476)
United Kingdom
October 2, 2015 2:59pm CST
its one of the worst things your kids may face in schools , specially when they feel they need to defend their selves and their defends considered punishable when they hit back to the offenders, we talk to the school about this, and they say , kids must not react to others, so how can you tell a kid not to defend him self when he is being hit or bullied while your not dong any thing to monitor this kind of incidents in the school and you always say his word against the others and at the end you discover from witness that the offenders are laying and not telling the truth how would you deal with something like this?
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Oct 15
That's a difficult one. Will younger kids, "tell a teacher" is fine. But with older kids, that's harder to do. Playgrounds are larger, and much bullying occurs after school. Research shows that standing up to a bully reduces being bullied. But any teacher who says "Just smack the kid back" would be fired immediately. What do you think?
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
3 Oct 15
the thing is when he fight back he is also blamed and punished like the other kid , after they take their statements and some are laying about what happened , what i did not understand is why you are punishing the one how is defending him self
@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
3 Oct 15
Its a difficult thing. I was bullied in high school but it finally stopped when I stood up and confronted the bullies. Nothing physical. I did the same when my kids told me the were bullied. I had a serious chat with the bully and it never happened again
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
3 Oct 15
you solve it well , but here the problem is not with specific group or person , its different person each time ...
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