How can you tell if she is the one for you?

Quezon City, Philippines
October 5, 2015 6:46am CST
I have a friend who is a girl we have been friends since we entered college. We became the best of friends we help each other in our assignments and reports. I find her as my inspiration that's why I standout in my university and win tremendous awards. I really admire her and feeling something very special for her. But I don't have the courage to say to her that I admire her. How can you tell if she is the one for you?
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@sofssu (23662)
7 Oct 15
All I can tell you is you know she is the one.. but does she feel so too.. a million dollar question.
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@sofssu (23662)
7 Oct 15
@intal_carl Courage comes when you exercise your confidence over fear.
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• Quezon City, Philippines
8 Oct 15
@sofssu I definitely will.
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• Quezon City, Philippines
7 Oct 15
That is a question that I need to know the answer from her but I still don't have the courage to do so.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
24 Oct 15
There are no guarantees! Take some time to know her and hopefully she feels the same way about you and then hope and pray for the best.
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• Quezon City, Philippines
24 Oct 15
I surely will.
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@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
5 Oct 15
Wow, this is a really tough question, for your post, I can tell that you already know enough about her as to know if she is compatible to you or not. The question here is to know if she feels the same way towards you. That's the scary part, because if she doesn't, friendship will never be the same, and, I think, that's why you are so frightened. Well my friend, love is always a bet, there are no paved roads, if you are sure of your feelings, the worst you can do is to keep them under the carpet, and wonder the rest of your days what would have been like if...? So, gather all the courage you can and have a talk with her, there are no warranties, but it's worth. Now, you can start with small advances, small gestures, to give you an idea of whether she is somehow, interested in you.. Anyway, good luck and keep cool.
• Quezon City, Philippines
5 Oct 15
Thank you for your suggestion.
@jstory07 (139725)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5 Oct 15
You will feel a love deep down inside of yourself and not want to be away from her. Tell her how you feel if you do not want to loss her.
• Quezon City, Philippines
5 Oct 15
Thank you
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
13 Oct 15
I can understand your hesitation because going from friendship to romance could turn out bad and ruin your friendship. If she is the one, you will definitely know.
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• Quezon City, Philippines
20 Oct 15
Thank you that is the same thing that I am thinking right now.
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@DeborahDiane (40295)
• Laguna Woods, California
20 Oct 15
Tell her how you feel and wait to see what she says. If she doesn't feel the same way, then she is not the one for you.
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• Quezon City, Philippines
20 Oct 15
Thank you for your suggestion I hope she feels the same thing.
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
5 Oct 15
Greetings, Carl. That kind of passion is so exciting. It's something unique. I really enjoy having that rush of adrenaline when thinking about approaching the girl you like. Has been a while, though, hahaha. I don't think there is any way to tell that SHE is the one. You have to get to know her. Know what she likes to do, talk to her, understand her feelings, learn what is she into. What are her plans, what are views on life, what are her values. From there, it will get naturally to you. You'll soon find out if she is the one or not. It's a matter of living the experience. It's great to be feeling like that, Carl. I hope you enjoy it. Don't take it hard. Take it pleasantly. It is quite a great experience! Respectfully.
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• Quezon City, Philippines
5 Oct 15
Thank you for your wonderful response.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Nov 15
Only you can tell that. Ask your heart and it will not lie.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
9 Nov 15
Well, when I was your age, I thought the guy I was so in love with was "the one" .. But not really because I was not "the one" for him .. So you need to find out if she thinks that you are the one ..
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
9 Oct 15
You will know if she is the one if you have one goal in life.
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@gudheart (12659)
29 Oct 15
I think it is hard to tell unless you have experienced it. I have yet to feel that so I can't tell you.
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
20 Oct 15
You will know if she is the right girl in the right time. As for now, just enjoy each other's company. If she is the one then God finds a way for you to determine that she is the one for you. Take it from the expert...hehehe.
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@JudyEv (340271)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 15
You seem to have a great relationship with this girl. I wish you luck if you decide to take things further.
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