Things are not as tough as we think it is..

@joygracia (1325)
Philippines
October 7, 2015 12:19am CST
I've been in a lot of hurt these couple of days... from my heart being broken.. to the recent loss of our immediate family (my grandmother died) and it feels like things turn apart in my life to the point that everyday is just so hard to bear. However, my parents just made it easier for me and I realize their great care is irreplaceable. Guess I'm not really the most unluckiest person in the world and this thoughts somehow keep me going.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
7 Oct 15
Sorry to hear about your losses - but you're right, there are always others who are in a worse place than we are...
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
7 Oct 15
That's right. The hurt just makes us blinded sometimes. We feel to see good things happening to us and yet its in our grasp.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
7 Oct 15
I am happy you finally realized that you still have your parents who cares a lot for you . There's a time to mourn though , but after a while , it's time to smile again .
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
9 Oct 15
Yes. It was tough because I've lived all my toddler life in my grandma's house and I had all the care in the world back then. I know she will my angel from heaven. I know she wants me to be happy and be strong.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
12 Oct 15
@SIMPLYD That's right. I really appreciate all my grandma's effort for me. I miss her a lot.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Oct 15
@joygracia That's the joy of having grandparents who are so doting !
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
8 Oct 15
We all have some share of troubles and trials in this life. Just pray and ask God for help for He is the only who will help you make it through.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
9 Oct 15
You're right. Thank you.
@skysnap (20153)
7 Oct 15
I agree. some of the time life is quite tough if we let it. and some of the time life is good if we work harder . so it is all depends on our efforts to get through the storm.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
7 Oct 15
Exactly, what tough things have you had before that you somehow recovered if you don't mind me asking?
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
9 Oct 15
@skysnap Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe just try to think life isn't that all bad luck. If your in the bottom point now then no doubt good things will definitely happened to you in the future.
@skysnap (20153)
7 Oct 15
@joygracia Loss of job. Losing every money in the bank. Denied by many women. Losing job again due to company shutting down. Not paid by freelance employee for which I worked 3 months. Still working on low wage jobs. And list goes on. :)
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
7 Oct 15
Just be tough dear and keep on praying.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
9 Oct 15
Thank you. I will definitely pray. That's the one big thing that gives me hope.
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Oct 15
I'm glad that you have your parents to help you, and don't forget that they will be feeling the loss of your grandmother too. You must support each other.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
12 Oct 15
Yes. I regretted I never got a chance to meet my grandmother for the last time. I'll just have to savor the moment that I have my parents with me now.
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@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
14 Oct 15
You're lucky to have parents who care about you. Sorry for your loss too. Some problems can be hard to resolve on your own so it's good when there are people around us who can help make us feel better.
@sofssu (23662)
7 Oct 15
Sorry for your loss.. it does hurt to not be able to see your loved ones.. but there is s life to be lived and people who love us and care for us.. its really isn't tough.. if we can see the light trough it all. I am sure your grandma is in a better place than here.. You have great memories of her to live with.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
9 Oct 15
Thank you. you're totally right.
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• Canada
7 Oct 15
When family pulls together like that it helps the grieving process. I'm sorry you're suffering right now.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
7 Oct 15
Yes. My family helped me a lot.
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