are you worried about the people who don't like you?

That truly is the best way to be ...why worry ourselves about people who dont like us especially on line? We can just take care to notice others that want to be around us.

A couple of times in my life I have had problems with that because it has been family. But when I don´t get along with friends, I move on.

Oh, it's such a long list of people who don't like me. I think it is. I don't know because I never bother with them. Well, maybe I do. I guess I would rather pretend I don't notice that they don't like me.

thats so true why worry about the ones that don't like you they just don't know

That's the right attitude. After all it's your life and you are living for yourself and not for others. Doesn't matter how much success you achieve or whatever you have done, there always will be some people who will criticize you. The thing which matters is your should not do such things which gives you or to others

Goood evening dear swissheart , there was a time whgen i used to be a pathological people pleasurer , up untill a few years ago when i started hearing rumors about that lets say where more then heartfull , so ever since i dont give a rats behind about what people thik at all about me , who doesn't like its their choice and i dont frankly care about it. Have a great evening.

Hey there, swissheart. There was a time in my life in which I didn't care at all. I was young, and I didn't mind if others would like me or not. Then I got to a stage in which it would bother me a lot. I would be really worried and trying not to be unpleasant to others. Nowadays, I understand that we will not be liked by everyone. It is simply not possible. When a person dislikes me for my views on life, for my goals, for my opinions, then I don't mind them. It's only natural that I won't agree with everybody, and this alone shouldn't be something to make others dislike me - if they do, they're the ones locked in their judgement. However, if somebody seems to not like me for some other reason, I still get worried. I'd usually try to avoid being in the path of that person, since it doesn't like me. But there are times when the person who dislikes you is, for example, at your job, or at your university. Then, there is no other way: you have to act professional and carry on. Respectfully.

We cannot be liked by everyone and so it is better that we are attuned to accepting that fact.

@swissheart,I don't know how many people are there around me who do not like me.But I am sure,they must be very few.My perception is people don't hate me.They accept me without any hesitation.So I have never thought about those who might be my haters or 'dislikers.'

Yes and no. It depends if i interact with them often.

There are so many people in the world. I just try to hangout with my friends and ignore the rest.

That's right. People has a lot to say about who and why around them and that pains everybody because of talk, talk, talk. Wel,l then the only way you get back at them is if you don't mind what they say. They can talk all they want, as long as yo don't fight them back that fine. They'll lose their voice and maybe their teeth. That's what my mom always say. If you talk about others you might lose your teeth haha