How To Be A Real Friend

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Many called me crazy when I forgive this friend. Maybe they are right but as for me and as for what I believe, it;s better to forgive and have a good relationship rather than anger to each other. I was living in her apartment for a year. Then June came. I and my ex came back together and I told her that we are going to do our business and maybe live together but I was thinking that time if that is the right thing to do. The next thing she did, she told me to leave her apartment because her son will renovate the house. I told this to my man and he told me that it's not true. He asked me to come to her son and asked the deposit since she liked me to leave the house at the end of June. I already paid my month of June. Having a 5000pesos deposit, she must gave it back or I will stay in her apartment for 45 days but she told me that urgent, by June 30th, I should leave the place. My man told me that she was lying. I found it out to three different person. A woman that lived in her house told me that it was me, who wants to move out. Then her son was shocked when I asked him my deposit. (She don't want to give the deposit with the reason she has no money. She liked to give back the money if she will have it- then it should not be. Since she is urgent in telling me to get out from her apartment, she must give me back my money.) The last person that told me that she was lying is herself. (lol you may say) I mean her other personality. One Saturday afternoon, after I met my man and his friend at the mall. I matched his friend to my other friend. When I came home, I fabricated a story to my friend. Let us call her Ivy.(Ivy Rose hehehe) I told Ivy that I and my man is already broke because he treated my other friend bad. I saw her seems smiling and on the next day, she told me that her son advised her to let me stay in that apartment. Once he do renovation, I will take one room at the back. I still left her place before end of June because I hate her. You see, that time, I have no money. If she really had the plan for me to leave she must told me during May because that time I was rich but the time she liked me to moved out from her apartment I was broke. It hurts me too much. I left her place after I got my deposit. I blocked her FB and delete her phone Number. She tried to called me but I never picked it up. After all the things I've done, ( I was not expecting more from her) she did that to me. She is not a real friend to me while I treated her as my real friend. Beside, she is older than me, a grandma but I respect her as my age. Anger gone after 3 months. The Bible said that we must forgive the one that cause pain to us. So, without much further a do, I forgive her and she is happy having me again. She likes me to help her in her missionary work. There is a convention that will happen by November and here I am, accepting a work from her, making a Id's of all her participants and members of her church. Still, I want to help her in the things she cannot do but I don;t want to be what I was before. This time, I should kept what is mine. She also must pay for all the works she ask me to do. To be a real friend is easy but sometimes it is hard to find a real friend. Some person may come for you for their personal reason. I do hope that you guys can find one who are not up to what they can get from their friends.