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@SIMPLYD (90721)
Philippines
October 15, 2015 4:15am CST
My husband would always be at the desktop computer at the lobby between our room and the dining room at night .
I would also be at the bedroom after dinner resting , watching TV and playing games during the commercials or sometimes at my netbook doing myLot . 
I like it that way , because nobody moves the soap opera I am watching on TV while i am still awake . 
However , when it is nearly time for me to sleep, I call him and requests that he shuts down the computer so we can also catch up with our days’s happening as he is always at home after he took the early retirement offer of their company .
I have to do that , because if not , we would just be married couples , not husband and wives anymore . 
Communication is still a must to husband and wives and even to those in relationships. Do you agree guys ? 
I like it that way , because nobody moves the soap opera I am watching on TV while i am still awake .
However , when it is nearly time for me to sleep, I call him and requests that he shuts down the computer so we can also catch up with our days’s happening as he is always at home after he took the early retirement offer of their company .
I have to do that , because if not , we would just be married couples , not husband and wives anymore .
Communication is still a must to husband and wives and even to those in relationships. Do you agree guys ? 25 people like this
24 responses
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
15 Oct 15
You could get a husband, cannot you?
No purpose will be served feeling jealous with our friend @SIMPLYD
No purpose will be served feeling jealous with our friend @SIMPLYD 
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
15 Oct 15
I always treated my wife right but obviously it wasn't enough. Now divorced and with someone else I feel much more free. The woman I have now is cool and relaxed. And a woman like that deserves attention and I give her lots of it. Look, women are the real backbone to a relationship. And yes, communication is important.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
16 Oct 15
@SIMPLYD I miss the laughs that my husband and I had. Even in hard times he would find something to laugh about and raise my spirits.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
15 Oct 15
Yes, communication between a husband and wife is imperative, else there will not no warmth in the relations. It is always good to share with each other about day's happenings. At the end of the day, husband and wife should be on same bed to talk to each other. We (me and my wife) share with each other about events which happen during the day and if we have to go to market or for a stroll, we make it a point to move together.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
15 Oct 15
@SIMPLYD - We would go for a evening walk and on our way we would buy some necessities or items of daily need (so we kill two birds with one stone).
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@Cdjran2015 (273)
• Manila, Philippines
15 Oct 15
I think I cant do that. If I am with him, I make sure that we are always together..kapit-tuko
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@Cdjran2015 (273)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Oct 15
@SIMPLYD i wan to hug him always. If he is busy with his phone, I asked him and he show me those women in FB who are disturbing him. I am thinking that maybe sometimes I will reply them from my account lol
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
15 Oct 15
Yes, I agree. There is time to shut down the computer and television and really talk.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
19 Oct 15
Thank you for saying that . As the wives , we should initiate to make our marriage alive and one of those is constant communication .
@changjiangzhibin89 (16789)
• China
18 Oct 15
I agree with you.Nowadays there are so many phubbers (we call them head-down tribe)who are addicted to video game or smartphone ,even can't be bothered to communicate with their better halves or friends
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 15
So true. Communication is very important to keep your married work. My husband work at night most of time, but still we can manage to have a fun conversation everyday
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
22 Oct 15
@redvakaurvaki That is nice because you want the situation corrected . Indeed , you have to wait for the contract to end before you resign .
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 15
@SIMPLYD I'm working too. I'm working in the morning and hubby has night shift. It's terrible actually that we meet at home when we both is tired. I hope to end this situation the following two years. I can't resign from my job because I'm committed to contract
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
27 Oct 15
Indeed it is so important that we always talk to our partners.
If we really make an effort as a woman to keep the love alive , we sure can indeed ! 
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Dec 15
i am totally agree with you in whole day couple have to spend some time together about daily activities and some good talk about each other so love grow more,in this day i daily seat with my parents and talk with them anything so they not feel lonely.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
28 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD yes because we are family and we have to live together so one small talk need to see what happen with all in day and hows a day of us..
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
16 Oct 15
That same scenario happens between me and hubby,. I agree that communication is really important than soap operas and games and social network...
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Oct 15
Well, we have our time for all of that , but at the end of the day , we should always find time to be with our hubby at the bedroom , to be able to talk about our life , before finally retiring to bed .
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Oct 15
You should initiate the communication , my dear . He will take the cue and reciprocate . That is , if he likes , but i know he likes that too .
@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Oct 15
I agree! When my wife and I were young, winking, smiling, and grinning were our means of communication most of the time. Whenever I winked at her, she either smiled or pouted! But she knew what I was communicating to her - - . . But now that we are old (not that old though - - hehe), we communicate by words all the time! 
. . But now that we are old (not that old though - - hehe), we communicate by words all the time! 1 person likes this
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Oct 15
I can relate to that because when we were also younger and our daughter is always present at home , winking is a sign for loving - loving . 
I can perceive that you and your wife have a happy marriage too.
I can perceive that you and your wife have a happy marriage too. 
@jrlcentral (2605)
• Roxas, Philippines
16 Oct 15
Well, we always stay in our bedroom after dinner, talking while either of us or both of us is on our laptops... though usually, I'd set aside mine if she is doing some research for her school. And of course or little prince is between us sleeping :D
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Oct 15
That's so nice !
Nowadays , couples who both work should really make it up with each other by talking with each other before they sleep. That way , they will both know how it is with their works , the house , the children and themselves while they were at their work .
Nowadays , couples who both work should really make it up with each other by talking with each other before they sleep. That way , they will both know how it is with their works , the house , the children and themselves while they were at their work . 
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Oct 15
Indeed , that's why i gave him space , like i let him be at the computer while he lets me be at my netbook or other activities . But , we would always at the end of the day put them all down so we will have time to catch up with each other's activities .
