Love Dillema

Lucknow, India
October 15, 2015 11:12am CST
My gf has been very unhappy since last few months and when I ask her she tells it's nothing. I have come to know that she is having liking for another. But she hasn't confessed!! Should I just let her go or should I find evidence and then dump her?
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April Revista
@JaneApril (334)
• Philippines
15 Oct 15
You should first find evidence of course. You don't know the truth yet. What if she just got a lot in her mind now that she wants to keep to herself? Or maybe she's going through a tough time? But, if you don't love her anymore because of what she's showing to you, then end it.
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vanny
@vandana7 (100545)
• India
16 Oct 15
That is a nice point. I presumed he has the evidence.
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neha gupta
@svunky (43)
• Delhi, India
16 Oct 15
yes that can be a huge possibility.. she might be dealing with a lot..or maybe he's done with her.
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Abdul Qadir
@jump2high (53)
• Delhi, India
16 Oct 15
@svunky you are also a girl how you can think like that?
neha gupta
@svunky (43)
• Delhi, India
15 Oct 15
Well, set your live free!! If it comes back it's yours forever, if nit then it was never meant to be.
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Nitin Sharma
@Rationalwriter (1813)
• Lucknow, India
15 Oct 15
Yeah!! I have to!!
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vanny
@vandana7 (100545)
• India
16 Oct 15
I would not be comfortable knowing I am the second choice. If the person is looking elsewhere, this one is not for me, and is not welcome back in my life. As simple as that.
neha gupta
@svunky (43)
• Delhi, India
16 Oct 15
@vandana7 i disagree with this .. its not about second choice.. sometimes a person just gets confused and its okay.. they come back coz they know u r worth it!! and tell me if you cant forgive do you really love that person or is it your ego thats bigger than the love itself??? but if the person has hurt your self respect then show them the door...
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joygracia
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
16 Oct 15
You can frankly ask her about it. I know it may hurt but its better to just accept things as the way they are.
rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
22 Oct 15
If she is cold already , then she probably have another . So find a proof and then break up with her nicely .
Gudheart
@gudheart (12659)
•
20 Oct 15
Best to know for sure first before dumping her.
Abdul Qadir
@jump2high (53)
• Delhi, India
16 Oct 15
Brother it's very common these days. Over all she is also a human being and we all set high expectations. She has all rights to find her future. Don't be selfish you need her may she need someone else. Please talk to your self and see were you giving her enough time and same respect what you were getting from her. I bet 90% of youth is suffering from this disease. Love is always two waysgiveand take. Talk to her hope all issues will be fixed soon.
Artgirl
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
16 Oct 15
Let her go. Better do it now than later. But if you really love her, you would fight for her.
vanny
@vandana7 (100545)
• India
15 Oct 15
D.U.M.P.