how hard is to ignore a person which is in the past your friend?

@hema7213 (3517)
India
October 20, 2015 1:55am CST
I felt so hard to ignore a person which is a my close friend at a time......you never know what happen in your life . your friend turn into enemy and your enemy become your friends...........................
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vanny
@vandana7 (100517)
• India
20 Oct 15
Yes, I have had many shocks. I no longer trust adults. Kids...well there are no expectations so no chance of being hurt, right?
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Oct 15
You no longer trust adults?
INDIAN WOMAN
@hema7213 (3517)
• India
20 Oct 15
yes, you are right no expectations means no sadness.......but we live in world where we have to communicate and stay with people....
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139735)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Oct 15
It is very hard but if the friend is not good to you anymore. Than you need to get them out of your life.
INDIAN WOMAN
@hema7213 (3517)
• India
20 Oct 15
i agree but we both are working under same roof ....then how can you ignore that person? this is my question
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139735)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Oct 15
@hema7213 Just do not be as friendly to them as you once were.
INDIAN WOMAN
@hema7213 (3517)
• India
20 Oct 15
yes, it is already done but how can you ignore them if you have to see thier faces on daily basis
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Oct 15
You should take it easy, if a person is no longer your (close) friend, you could just say 'Hello' to him/her and move away, you need not necessarily start a conversation with him/her. There are no enemies as such, it is we who think that other one is our enemy.
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Oct 15
INDIAN WOMAN
@hema7213 (3517)
• India
20 Oct 15
YES, i agree it can be done....thanks
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ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
12 Nov 15
Well it will be difficult at first and always awkward, but as time goes on you can get used to the situation. Like me, I have someone that I treated as a friend, well I thought we are friends but things happen between us that ends that "friendship". Its really difficult to be in the same place with her but now its no longer like that, I already learn to deal with her and go on with my life which is a lot better without her...
ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
12 Nov 15
@hema7213 that's true! One true friend is much much better than a thousand of fake friends!
INDIAN WOMAN
@hema7213 (3517)
• India
12 Nov 15
i can understand how hard is for you to deal with her.....i am also in same situation few years ago.....i trusted someone as my friend but they never treat me as their friend.....now i believe that it is okay to have only one and true friend.....only that you need ...bunch of friends never help you in anyway....
chiwasaki
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
22 Oct 15
I believe this is very difficult specially if you are in the same office or school. Though it is hard, you may try to talk to that person and settle any issues for your peace of mind.
INDIAN WOMAN
@hema7213 (3517)
• India
22 Oct 15
I don't think settlement can be done at this time..................i have to wait for the right time
Audrey
@lilnana1111 (2305)
• United States
5 Nov 15
Life is funny that way, we never know what or who is just around the corner.
INDIAN WOMAN
@hema7213 (3517)
• India
5 Nov 15
yes, totally....sometimes friends turns into enemy and enemy turns into strangers...we don't know what can happen in our life
katrine
@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
20 Oct 15
i agree, i have friends who are really close and they used to be like inseparable sisters but now they're like the best enemies of all times..
INDIAN WOMAN
@hema7213 (3517)
• India
20 Oct 15
katrine, you are correct dear......i also have seen such kind of scenrio in between my past class mates.