An unhappy dinner

Dege, China
October 20, 2015 10:36am CST
This evening, I had dinner with my boyfriend, but the process was upset. After my boyfriend ordered his dishes, I planned to order something I like. When I talked to waitress what I like, my boyfriend refused and asked the waitress to make another dishes. At that moment, I felt very angry and then shouted at him loudly, "Go away, I have the right to decide what I gonna to eat!". Hearing this, he did shut up, but I know he was quite grommy because he lost his face. Now, I am very regreatful about it.
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Happy Homestead
@destry (2572)
• Kirkwall, Scotland
20 Oct 15
You do not need to be regretful - it is your choice what you eat!
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Rella
@BellaChe (33)
• Dege, China
21 Oct 15
You are helpful, thank you
topffer
@topffer (42156)
• France
20 Oct 15
You should not be regretful : if someone had bad manners here, it is your boyfriend : he has not to decide for you what you want to eat, and I hope that he has learned the lesson today.
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Rella
@BellaChe (33)
• Dege, China
21 Oct 15
Thank you for your comment. You idea has pleased me! I feel relax now.
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Artemeis
@artemeis (4194)
• China
21 Oct 15
What did you order? Why did your boyfriend disagree with what you wanted to eat? However, I am concern with your outburst which I feel it could be some accumulated frustrations with him. If this is the case, I hope that you will not stop at nothing to have a proper conversation with him as to what you really expect as far as respecting and trusting your decisions. I know we need to be considerate and loving but that does not mean we should subject ourselves to being disregarded, disrespected, ignored and overlooked. We all have our thresholds that must not be trampled on to have our own dignity in tact. There must be mutual respect and trust when we love the other person. Hope all things will be well with the both of you.
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