You can't suggest your own discussions now

By DnkH
@DnkHrth (268)
Sri Lanka
October 22, 2015 1:57am CST
You can't suggest your own discussions but you can suggest discussions made by others, to anyone. I have never used it anyway. I think that is a good idea. I think 'being suggested' is something a discussion should earn. What do you think?
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30 responses
@indexer (4852)
• Leicester, England
22 Oct 15
I'm not so sure about this. It might lead to people getting in cahoots with each and suggesting each others' posts. I have been in the habit of using this feature because it led to many more responses. I'll have to see what difference it makes now that the feature has been removed. I will probably suggest new posts that look to be interesting.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 Oct 15
I doubt if I will ever use the suggestions feature again.
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• United States
22 Oct 15
I enjoy your discussions John..
@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
I will suggest posts which earn my respect too. But I am more like to hunt down discussions. When it's too much, suggestions can be really annoying.
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• Preston, England
22 Oct 15
It's a move I welcome. I was in favour of it from when I joined so I think it is a great progressive step for the site. This was the first page to be suggested to me since the changes were implemented. Thanks for that.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 Oct 15
It's a move I am not in favor of because I think it will take more time to find something I want to read.
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• Preston, England
22 Oct 15
@rahulvsmokiee thanks - much appreciated. I have forwarded the admin message itself round through suggestions. One that everyone should see
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
22 Oct 15
And guess who did sugested? its me my broher
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Oct 15
I dont start that many discussions so it does not matter t me, I am quite happy with the change
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
I am not making much discussions as well. For three months, I only made five.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Oct 15
I have only used the suggest feature once, and never used it again. I just didn't want to spam others by sending one suggestion after another, which some did. I would end up getting several suggestions from one person, so the fact they have changed it now, will make it much better. We won't be getting suggestions from the same person over and over that way. This is a welcome change.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
22 Oct 15
@DnkHrth It did, when I would get several from one person. I usually just ignored them too, as that was considered spamming in my book. I only suggested one discussion, and that was it, and I didn't choose that many to send it to either. I am really happy that the decision was made not to suggest our own, as we won't get oodles now, and that is fine with me.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
I never received suggestions from anyone. When it's too much, I guess it could be really annoying.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
@rosekiss You did right. When we get that many unnecessary suggestions, the only option left is ignoring them.
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@Susu1121 (180)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Oct 15
i found that today. it is also good .not effect my passion in mylot.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
That's the spirit. It won't affect good discussions by any means.
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
22 Oct 15
I never use sugest butttonm. Just used couple of time before. But i am irritated by the number of suggessions in my page. Its a appreciative work from alice. hats of alice.
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• West Haven, Connecticut
22 Oct 15
Changes can be good, lets stay positive!
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
That's the spirit! I think this is a good change.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 Oct 15
I think it is going to be more time consuming trying to find your friends discussions.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
23 Oct 15
@TiarasOceanView Thanks my friend.
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• United States
23 Oct 15
@Marcyaz I figured it out now but ...it is not the same
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• United States
22 Oct 15
I will try to find yours Marcy.
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@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 15
Although we can't do that anymore, but we can still tag people into our discussions.
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@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 15
@Tita417 Of course, you tag a person by putting an "@" sign before their username, just like I am mentioning you here and that's how you got the notification that "@Jlyn10 mentioned you in a comment" in this discussion.
@yugocean (9963)
• India
27 Oct 15
Don't forget me in your party
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@Tita417 (1228)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Oct 15
Can you tag?
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@Gina145 (3949)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
22 Oct 15
I never really used the suggest button so it's not going to affect me much but it's disappointing that it was necessary. That means a lot of people were obviously abusing it.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
It's true. Some people really don't like this decision.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
22 Oct 15
I enjoyed the suggestion feature because it helped me to keep caught up with the posts by people I am following.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 Oct 15
I also enjoyed the suggestion feature so people could send me their discussions and i could respond to them. Now we are going to have to hunt for them which will take longer.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
28 Oct 15
@simone10 me to as i have to hunt for them now.
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
28 Oct 15
@Marcyaz It has taken me a little longer now to respond to discussions.
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@KnehKnah (3584)
• Philippines
22 Oct 15
I'd been receiving suggestions last Oct. 8, when I started having friends here. I found it ok tho' as it sort of gave me a prompter re, my friend's latest write-up. I saw nothing wrong in it, except when I received "a lot" from just a few. So, my stand is: to give a minimum of to be suggested posts (1 or 2, in a day). Anyway, the chance is gone. Thank you.
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• United States
22 Oct 15
Good call KnehKnah. On another site that is the option, you may only do 3 discussions per day, but you do have that option.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
That's a good idea too. Adding a limit could help too.
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@Tita417 (1228)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Oct 15
How come mine suggestion are still blinking and in fact that's why I got your post. I thought it stopped? Is it only me?
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 Oct 15
Yeah good comment why did you suggest this to me if it is not supposed to be any longer.
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@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 15
It's not the poster of the discussion who suggested to you but someone else.
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@Tita417 (1228)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Oct 15
@Jlyn10 oh okay so that's why so suggestion box is active only if you suggest others Now I get it thanks so much
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
22 Oct 15
Yeah i just found thta. I must say thta it is a good thing to do so. It is better so that people stops spamming
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 Oct 15
Spamming I thought that was against the rules.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
@Marcyaz Spamming is against the rules. No argument for that.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
23 Oct 15
@dodoazo Good point but I have no idea how to suggest to friends and I guess as for followers we will no longer have any.
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@pcunix (210)
• Middleboro, Massachusetts
22 Oct 15
Ayup. I was surprised that they ever had that. Good move.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
Hey! Are you from John Cena's town? He is from Massachusetts right?
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
23 Oct 15
@pcunix But you know about WWE, right?
@pcunix (210)
• Middleboro, Massachusetts
22 Oct 15
@DnkHrth I don't know who that is. I'm originally from Sharon, now retired in Middleboro.
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@cgalavia (1436)
• Philippines
22 Oct 15
Now,I have read this..
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@Gwensmom (504)
• United States
23 Oct 15
I liked having it. I don't care if they suggested it because they wrote it. I found it more convenient, even if I could find them another way. Plus, the poster is asking for support and support is what makes MyLot.
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@Gwensmom (504)
• United States
24 Oct 15
@DnkHrth What do you mean no offense? You asked for an opinion and I stated mine.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
24 Oct 15
@Gwensmom I know. I said it because I was afraid if you misunderstand my reply. In any case that my reply would make you feel angry about me. I am only here to make friends.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
24 Oct 15
We all have our own ways of reacting for this change. But it is a rule. So whether we liked it or not, I guess we all have to follow that. (No offence)
@jstory07 (139974)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 Oct 15
I think if someone has a really good post why not suggest their post.
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@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
22 Oct 15
You can still do that. You can suggest others discussions to anyone.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
22 Oct 15
I second that motion. A reward for discussion being suggested. :)
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Oct 15
Just read the admin post about it. I have mixed feelings about it.
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@Tita417 (1228)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Oct 15
No problem with me. If that's the rule then we follow
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