Loving myself more than ever!
By joygracia
@joygracia (1325)
Philippines
October 23, 2015 4:57am CST
Having gone through those tough times; multiple heartbreaks, kind of made a toll on me not in a negative but gladly in a positive way. I somehow see my worth more and I'm more than eager to do what I want to unravel with myself. I know I would feel the sense of emptiness sometimes having no partner but somehow, I have learn to convert this into something motivating. Its giving me the idea to give up on being such a caregiver and just focus on taking care of oneself. I've learn to forgive, to stop holding grudges and accept practical things because as they said everything happens for a reason. I guess that would include the fact that God want me to love myself more than anything else that way I would really know what I want or to whom I want to be with someday.
How do you love yourself? Care to share?
4 people like this
4 responses
@allknowing (136100)
• India
23 Oct 15
My motto in life is 'Love yourself and help save planet earth' How that is possible I leave you to analyse.
Happy that you are moving on with a spring in your step.
1 person likes this
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
23 Oct 15
Cool!... I guess what your saying when you said to save mother earth is to become a good influence to everyone. One way to achieve this is to love thy self. ;D
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
23 Oct 15
@allknowing Nice. Everything would be so wonderful if that's the case I guess.
1 person likes this
@allknowing (136100)
• India
23 Oct 15
@joygracia True. Unless we love ourselves which means having an environment around that is conducive to our existence devoid of hatred, and stuff that is how the world wlll be saved too.
1 person likes this
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
23 Oct 15
@sugartoes That's a wonderful aphorism from your parent and thus everyone should follow. I definitely live up to this statement. Thank you.
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 15
If you love someone or something, you give special attention and care for it. So, by loving yourself, you will take care of your body by giving it the right nutrition. You will not allow yourself immerse into negative things i.e. sad, depressed etc. Always positive so you will look cheerful. Take good care of your health and make a point to look good eventhough you don't feel good.
1 person likes this
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
23 Oct 15
Yes. that's recently what I've been doing so far and its very fulfilling. I'd like to beautify myself and it feels very enlightening every time I see myself in the mirror looking like a brand new person everyday... ;D
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 15
I know has multiple heartbreaks will make you tired to love someone who keeps hurting you. I agree with your attitude that seeks to forgive and forget what has happened and enjoy what you have. It is the best way for you to recognize yourself better and find out how you remain happy despite not having a partner at this time....
1 person likes this
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
25 Oct 15
Yes, having this attitude makes me kind of excited my upcoming new relationship someday but I'm still open to having long term single-hood.. hehe.. I don't mind as I can be independent and happy as I want to be. I appreciate life by myself now.. :D
