Falling love with two girls at the same time.. is that a crime??
By sourav
@sparial02 (858)
India
October 25, 2015 4:24am CST
I have a girl friend.. she is my girlfriend for 5 years ... she loves me so much and i love her too.. but i have a friend in my office .. she is so nice to me..she loves me.. she told me that.. but i said to her we are good friends.. she accepted.. we attended many parties together.. she tried to make love with me many times .. i rejected everytime ..
Once i had a lil fight with my girlfriend.. i went to the bar and the office friend was with me.. she took me in her flat.. and then she does what she wanted... and i am too.. on the very next morning.. whn i reach home.. i see my gf crying and said sorry to me.. she was so shocked with my behaviour,,, didnt came home last night.. she told me please dont do it again.. i am not going to fight you ever.. kissed me..
Now the fact is.. i am in love with both of them.. Not like am bored with one and went for other.. in my case.. i love both of them and they also love me so much..one in the office still love me even knowing that i have a gf.. but the one we are living together.. she dont know yet.. how can i tell her?? i am afraid.. i just dont want to lose her too.. they are my life... i feel so happy with both of them..
( It is not my real life story though, FYI:- i dont have a gf yet)
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7 responses
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
25 Oct 15
Where does your friend live? I'd like to come and knock some sense into him.
I think he's confused by this office ladies charms and not really in love.
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
25 Oct 15
ha ha .. i dont know may be you are right.. but he says he like both of them.. so u think its a crime?? or a man/woman just cant fall in love with two at the same time??
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@sparial02 Not a crime. It just can't happen
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
31 Oct 15
@cupkitties It's already happening.. i Have seen a man who have wives in different places... i have seen house wives while her husband is not home.. she is doing love with someone.. and she is loving her husband too while husband in home.. a lot of cases like this happening around us.. in some cases, the purpose is money, in another, personal satisfaction or weird mind, but also i think there is at least 1 percent of chance that a man or woman can fall for two at the same time, don't u think? So why u said it can't happen?? what if it's happen??
@shine25 (75)
• Quezon City, Philippines
25 Oct 15
oh my goodness! torn beetween two lovers? its ok if they are not your girlfriend already.. but dont make them feel that they are your past time.. choose only one.. just take time to choose.. just listen to your heart first..maybe its hard at first .. i hope you choose the right one.. :)
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
25 Oct 15
i just shared a story... there is no relation with the story with me in real life.. and honestly i dont have that much courage to talk to a girl in front me.. i feel shy.. dont know why.. My current girlfriend is my computer..
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@thinkingoutloud (6127)
• Canada
31 Oct 15
I will paraphrase something I read one time that always stuck with me: If you think you are in love with two people, always choose the second one - because if you had truly loved the first, there would never BE a second.
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
31 Oct 15
Ah!!! well said !! But as for the human nature.. we like to forget old things,,, the things you love most.. in most cases.. you'll find it not attractive after some days or some years and you'll consider to upgrade. So in that case, the true love or the marriage life will be in great danger..
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Oct 15
@sparial02 Of course you can fall in love with two people at once, but in most cultures it is not acceptable to BE with two romantic partners.
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
25 Oct 15
@dawnald this is it my friend.. thats what i wanted to hear.. so its not a crime.. would you mind if this happens to you??What you gonna do?? Sorry for askin that.. i wish u have a happiest life..god bless u.. am just asking ur view..
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
25 Oct 15
so you think you cant fall in love with two person at the same time?? one with one only?? but what if he continues in the same way?? What if both girls say they are ready to live with him?? if that happens.. does it going to change one of the rule of the love?
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@LeaPea2417 (37353)
• Toccoa, Georgia
29 Oct 15
Oh, so , this is just a story you wrote. How interesting.
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@LeaPea2417 (37353)
• Toccoa, Georgia
29 Oct 15
@sparial02 Yes, I like the concept of the story.
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
29 Oct 15
yeah do u like the story?? i like to write stories, short stories, poems etc etc..
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
29 Oct 15
Playing around or juggling more than one partner will just get your friend or any one else for that matter into trouble. It just does not work.
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
31 Oct 15
@sparial02 They may be accepting at first, but sooner or later, jealousy sparks.
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
31 Oct 15
But what if someone happy what is he or she doing.. both her partners are happy, the one who doing this, he or she also feeling happy.. suppose after knowing all the truth,, the two girls or boys agreed to pass the life with the same partner? so what is going to happen then? What do you think what should he or she do??
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@sparial02 (858)
• India
31 Oct 15
@Pattitude that is not the point.. but accepting at the first is quite a great thing..
@Samanthavv (1380)
• United States
25 Oct 15
While it is not a crime, I am pretty sure it won't end well for anyone" the man in question needs to have a good long hard thinking session about what to do and what will cause the least damage to all parties involved.
@Samanthavv (1380)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@sparial02 it's hard to say. NO one can really make that decision from the outside of the situation. Really, the only person who can truly know what is best in this position, is the man and it may take some soul searching to arrive at that answer.
@sparial02 (858)
• India
25 Oct 15
Any Idea?? i know that if its continue.. the conclusion of the story will be horrible..
@sparial02 (858)
• India
25 Oct 15
@Samanthavv absolutely right.. but if he succeed to continue the dual relationship.. is he going to be called the lord of relationships??
