My friend went to another city for a job!
By Kim
@kimjin (23)
China
October 27, 2015 4:30am CST
I just heard that he came to another city this morning! so sad
. Because there will be nobody plays with me, I will be alone. I just like to play balls with him, eating with him, talking with him. and somewhat I like him. but now he left, I feel empty! Several months later, he will be back. What will happen at that time?! No one knows.
. Because there will be nobody plays with me, I will be alone. I just like to play balls with him, eating with him, talking with him. and somewhat I like him. but now he left, I feel empty! Several months later, he will be back. What will happen at that time?! No one knows.5 people like this
6 responses
@Cdjran2015 (273)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Nov 15
I feel for you but don't think too much of his absence. You have your own life to enjoy. You can do many things without him. Try to discover things you can do without him.
As for me, even without friends beside me, I am happy and do my work.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 15
Parting with a good friend is something sad, empty feeling and loss is reasonable. But do not worry, the time will help you overcome your loneliness and emptiness. Hopefully when he comes back, he has not changed.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 15
@kimjin Yes, it is really bad for you, but trust me you will can pass this. You can if you think you can. Never give up, you will find the way to solve this condition.
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@artemeis (4194)
• China
28 Nov 15
You can take this as a growing stage for your relationship with him where it will be time to see if he is willing to stay in touch with you on the basis of maintaining this relationship. Let him make the effort and you will know if there is a relationship in the first place between the both of you.
However, you may need to understand if he is a conservative introvert who has difficulty opening up and taking the initiative. If this is so, you may have to take over the initiative but be subtle with your approach or your efforts will be obligating him than encouraging him to keep in touch with you.
I really hope that there's a real relationship here. Give it a bit of time and a chance for yourself to meet other boys.
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@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
28 Oct 15
Look, if he is happy with it, then try to be happy for him. Keep constantly in touch and ask about what he did, share your experiences regularly. That will definitely keep the bad mood somewhat at bay. Don't dwell on this sadness. I'm sure he doesn't want you to.
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@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
28 Oct 15
@kimjin I don't mean constantly as in every minute! Just everyday, on a regular basis. So that you guys don't go out of touch for several days. It's natural not wanting to disturb, I wouldn't do that too.
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