Have you ever been set up on a date?
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
United States
October 28, 2015 3:54pm CST
Before my husband and I got together a co-worker of mine tried setting me up. Well the guy she set me up with was truly not what I was looking for. Didn't even seem like he took care of himself, had any interest in dating anyone, and didn't know how to converse with a female. Made me wonder what my co-worker was even thinking!
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@1creekgirl (41447)
• United States
28 Oct 15
I met my husband on a blind date and that was 50 years ago! That one worked out pretty well.
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@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
29 Oct 15
sounds cool! It was definitely a lucky day for both of you.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
28 Oct 15
I once tried to set up a couple friends of mine because they were both bad at finding relationships and had very little experience with dating, so I thought they'd be good for each other. It didn't work out though.. probably due to the fact that she was only visiting from Canada, LOL.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Nov 15
hi@3SnuggleBunnies hatley here I had a set up date l ike that. I saw him througt he large window of the cafe a fat man with a scowl and about twenty years older than I was at the time. My heart dropped i into nmy shoes. I used a pay phone called the cafe, told the waitresst who answered that I wanted her o ta;k to the bald man with the red carnation and tell him Miss Clark is ill and cannot go out with him.I never did know why my best friend tried to palm him off on me.
Later I heard she married him. he might have been a wonderf ul man but he was not what I wanted. I found m y mate for m y self we were marriedc forf 33 years.
@intal_carl (299)
• Quezon City, Philippines
29 Oct 15
Never. I really have no experience in going on a date.
@sparial02 (858)
• India
29 Oct 15
I set up once while i first bought my phone, the sim card i bought which given me some free talk time and i used it to call random numbers. then i hooked up with a girl, her voice was nice.. We were talking like boyfriend girlfriend... so after calling a few days, i told her Lets Meet.. . i told her to come 12 30 pm, at the station road, i called her she told me where she standing and what she wearing and after seeing her.. i came to my house!! took a Cold Bath!! She was a woman nearly 40 or 45 years... and trust me that's the first time i talked with a girl in that way..You'll never know how i felt on that day... Horrible!! Terrible!!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Nov 15
i bet you felt l ike you wo uld be dating you mother in dating a woman so much older. i got stuck that way once too and got out of it., the horri le example of m y younger mom married to my dad 35 years older and always abusing her verbally very hurful too.
@Katlynn (366)
• United States
8 Nov 15
Just yesterday someone suggested setting me up on a date with their friend. He is supposedly a very nice person, around my age and we have some mutual interests. But, he has a bad drinking problem. It all sounds good except the drinking problem. So, I am also wondering what my friend was thinking.
In a situation such as yours (and mine), it's only reasonable to wonder what someone was thinking when they felt you would be compatible with that particular person. It's as if they don't know you well enough to fix you up with someone you would be interested in. It isn't just about having a body in your presence, but about compatibility and common interests - someone you can communicate and connect with.
@GardenGerty (160713)
• United States
28 Oct 15
I do not even remember being dating age. I did go on a double date or two.
@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
29 Oct 15
That's a new kind of lame on part of your co-worker. I haven't been set up ever, I'm kind of the finding-guy-for-myself girl.
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Oct 15
Ha haa no i have never been set and neither have i ever set someone he hee