Overwhelmed Here Feel S ad.

Oh my dear lady I still remember those wonderful discussions from you on the earlier version of MyLot and trust me, things are almost the same. It is just that we have many new faces around and to add there are some more things that we oldies have to get accustomed to. We all are facing similar issues as you. And I do understand being on two sites that are almost quite different is a difficult thing, even for me. I do hope that things will become easy and we would have the older kind of days again here at this MyLot. It is all about patience and regrouping the friends. Here is a warm hugs to you my dear

I know I will never get 100 comments.

Do not compare yourself to others. You and I are both old timers. I just do not seem to be looking when you are posting. I have been back a little longer than you have, and I have seen my discussions building as the days pass. Neither you nor I are controversial, so we will not generate that kind of attention. I bet it picks up as you go along.

Patsy, you know it isn't how many comments or responses one gets that makes you popular or top rated...Just keep doing what you do, us here that know you are always here for you....many hugs with love

I say, just be yourself and enjoy what time you spend here.

I understand how you are feeling. At times I think wow this is so important and write it - then maybe I have 1 or 2 people read it and comment. I don't get a lot of responses on my posts either. I have a few people who love my posts and I know most of the time they will be the ones who answer me. I guess it is not bad because if you participate on other discussion this also works in your favor. I have a lot of stuff I wrote up in a two week time frame and now I look I don't have that may people interacting with me but I try hard to interact with them. Keep going and don't look at others. Do what is right for you and makes you feel good.

I have had some discussions with only a couple of responses. I hope they get better. But I will not get depressed. Still, if I respond to someone´s posts all the time and they never come around to see one of mine, I will stop following them. I like interaction

You need 100 comments here ? Ok this is one from me too. How come you are not familiar, most of us know you well, newcomers will know because we are here, we all have less time, so nobody is personally at fault. MyLot

Don't worry too much Hatley, mine are really up and down too. I think it is timing and overall activity. Spend time visiting and reading and commenting and it will all come to you I am sure.

If you've made payout you can't be doing too badly. Don't worry if other people get more comments, just carry on being the hatley we know and love.

I think you just have to settle into a routine here. I don't spend a lot of time here, but when I return I always look for your posts. So you may not see me comment for several hours. I think it's just getting into the swing of things. It's certainly busier here than somewhere else I think.

you dont even know most of my articles get only 2/3 comments. I am never discouraged. Be positive

I don't get near a hundred comments, but I value the ones I do get whether they be one or ten.

Cheer up ..you are part of us!

It is the same myLot with a community part of which is new to you. We know you did very well in the old myLot but you need to accept the fact that things change.

As everyone already said, don't worry at all about it... You're doing well, extremely well, if I may say so... Just look at that number next to your username - no one has any higher than that and it's quite an achievement in itself!

Don't be discouraged. I have never gotten 100 comments either.

part of it is just luck, starting a convo that one person finds interesting and getting a good back and forth going. And Im doing better month 2 than I did month 1, so there might be something to that

I think that you really have no need at all to feel stupid Patsy. If you want a really good measure of success I suggest that you look at the number we have by the side of our names. That tells the myLot community how interactive we have been. I have just been down all the comments in this post and checked to see what number is besides everyone's name. Do you know there is only one person that has a bigger number by the side of their name than you do. You have tens of thousands more interactions than most of us. Especially those of us that migrated here from BB. From the responses to this post, nobody else thinks you are doing it wrong. I think that you are the only one who feels in any way that you are not doing it right. This is a social interaction site just like Bubblews. By any criteria I think we can safely say that you are a success. Money or how much a post earns is not the true measure of its value. Some people know how to manipulate and work a system but we never get to know them. Stop beating yourself up and start enjoying your post as much as we do :D

The more that you comment and like, the more comments you'll get on your own posts. We get paid for all of our interactions here, so I wouldn't worry if your posts aren't getting a lot of comments yet. Just keep posting, commenting, liking, and following. I really like it here better than Bubblews.