Weighing a big decision

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Today I didn't go into work so that i could accompany my wife to an appointment in regards to my son, Noah. For those of you who don't know me from other sites, my son lives with Cerebral Palsy. In his case this means a pretty decent physical impairment due to excessive tone in his legs and arms. He is able to walk but not well, and with poor balance. He also has other issues, but for the sake of keeping things short, we'll just stop there. His primary rehabilitation doctor suggested that we look into a procedure called Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy. For a good explanation see this link ( http://www.stlouischildrens.org/our-services/center-cerebral-palsy-spasticity/about-selective-dorsal-rhizotomy-sdr ) for a cliffnotes version: They go into the patients spine and selectivly cut nerves that seem to cause the problems with spastisity in the patients legs. We got a long explanation from the doctor on risks, outcomes, and criteria for patients. He wants to do another test and give us time to think before we make a decision. Long story short: This is a very serious surgery but isn't known for being all that risky. However, it comes with 2 weeks of hospitalization and months, and months of intense physical therapy afterwards. Meaning one, or both of us would have to take time off of work for it to happen. Not to mention they would literally be opening up my son's spine... So, as you can see, i have a lot to think about in the coming days. we're looking at early next year, or spring time if we decide to go forward with the surgery. Any thoughts, input, or personal experience would be greatly appreciated.