How to move on??
By RUBY M.
Makati, Philippines
November 8, 2015 12:50am CST
Moving on is not easy to do & it is also hard to ask to a friend or even to Ourselves. But why ??? What are the reasons behind it & Why it is really hard to move on?
I'm not an expert when it comes to "Love " & what more in giving advices about moving on? But, I'm here now & writing about how to move on based on my own experienced. I often heard to people who've been in this situation before that moving on from a long relationship is more harder than in a short period of relationship. Is it really true? Well, in my own opinion Yes !!! It is harder to move on when you're from a long period of relationship because of the time you spent together & the Trust you've given. Most break up feeling that we often experiences is that we feel Unloved, Hopeless & Alone. Being in that situation we always first felt & think that we are Unloved by our Ex's but did we ever think that the reason why we're being unloved is that we've been forgot to Love Ourselves & that we'd been more focused on how to love them & to make them happy & in the result is we Forgot Ours.So, before we think that we are unloved let us all think that it is not yet the end of the world .We can still be Love, Love from our Families, our friends & of course Love from ourselves.It is important to Love Ourselves again because this will help us heal the Broken pieces of our hearts & ease the pain.Being Hopeless won't help us get through the situation but instead it will make us look desperate.So let's us be Hopeful for the better you & for a better future. Don't seal in yourself in a jar that you , yourself knows how to open it.yes! Don't feel alone! Go out & spend time with your family & Friends. They will be your support system. It's about time to move on, forget the past & Learn from it. Happiness will always defends on how we handle it... so let's be Live happy & always Pray.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
8 Nov 15
Very true we focus on loving others and forget ourselves and the moment those people walk away we end up feeling empty and one thing we can do after a break up is love ourselves
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• Makati, Philippines
13 Nov 15
Thank u Margaret Mwangi For the comment...! Yes! I agree with you!
Though sometimes its hard to accept the reality of break up but we will all experience that & at the end of the day we have a lesson learned. So in every failure there is a reason & lesson behind it.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Nov 15
@Ruby_Forever_Gourmet Sure and the best we can do is learn and move on since some things are beyond us
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• Makati, Philippines
14 Nov 15
@Missmwngi Yes! Your absolutely right! There's a better & brighter future that awaits us. We just need to be patient.Let's just wait for the right time & person who will make us feel important & worth it to be Love again.
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