My boyfriend

i'm confused.. so he is nearer now isn't he? can't you see each other then? or did you want him to go to your city?

Dear,cheer up.Tomorrow is another day.

You need to clear your doubts with your boy friend. If you feel that he deliberately ditched you and has gone to see great wall, you could convey your displeasure to him. If you feel that he does not care you, you could warn him and break off.

What I can understand from your post is that you are very much disappointed by your Boy friend's decision to visit Beijing instead of you. Any relation needs trust and belief. So my advice to you would be to give some time to your relationship and see. I understand its very difficult to maintain a relationship specially when its long distance. But its very easy to break but its very difficult to find a dream partner.

This is what love is all about missing each other.

If your love to each other is true distance is nothing to both of you.

hi I'm not sure as you nor I don't really k now why he did just as he did. I would s ure hesitate to break up yet. He did call you and said he misses you , try to see if you two could meet halfway at a place yo u both co uld afford to trave tool I bet he wou ld be thrilled that yo u did this.t;hink the best be positive

I don't think you are over-reacting. You don't see each other that much anyway and for him to do this instead of visiting you, I would be upset too. He sounds like he might be a little selfish.

I agree that long distance relationship is hard because you are also missing his embrace, kisses and hanging out together. Although it's hard, it will also test how strong the relationship is. I think, supporting hims is the best. There will be the time that you guys will be together and you have to enjoy every moment of it.

I am sure by writting it here you were able to let it out but don't go to an extent of breaking up. Long distance relationships are hard but don't give up

Its nice to hear you , you are not overacting but you just express your love and how you love him. Its happened because you not met frim long time and after knowing he is coming , you are so happy and see your feeling, may be you feel now your hours like day and cant be sleep and just thinking for him. Humm have nice love life and always be happy with him.

you are not overreacting as its his fault so you should first of all listen and talk to each other and then take such a big decision of breakup . I think you will solve the problem so all the best

Hi, I think, it's all depend upon how one is looking at it. May be he got some work to be finished at Beijing. May be he will surprise you I will not give you false hopes but it would be great if you ask him what are his plans. And if possible met him at equal distance from your town and where he is. So don't worry about what other think of it. You will surely get mix responses on this. Some will consider it over-reacting, someone call it your love for him, some will say it is natural to feel like this! I will go with Natural reaction. Well off course when we visit a country and guide says - there is a fountain 100 KM ahead which is very famous then surely we would not like to miss that one. In case we miss that we will be like - why did we miss it. So since he got chance to visit your country then hope he finds some time to spend with you as well. I wish he surprises you Keep us updated.

Helow Your not overreacting Im also in a long distance relationship. I know what exactly how you feel right now, because ive experienced that how many times already:) but then i always asking for reasons before i do some move. You must talk your boyfriend, let him know how you feel to what he does, who knows he can do something to get you fel better. Meanwhile dont think about it too much for now, make your life busy for a moment with those things that will gt yourSlf hapy

Hi.dear ,nice chatting with u here.I must be angry,too,if my boy friend treats me the same way. Tell him ur feeling,u will feel better.

No, you're not over-reacting. If he had told you those were his plans, it would have been hard to accept, but to just go off and let you down was bad. I think it's time to find a new boyfriend - but first explain how much his action upset you and maybe he just didn't realise.

hmm, I am not sure what his situation is but personally I would be upset.