I have a secret to share

Yes, on the old myLot and especially when I was a new user with very few posts (mostly in general nature) most would think I'm a young male of which I've never bothered to correct them either. They'd addressed me with "man" or "dude"...

i have figured out what most people are. But boy or girl it does not matter.

I find the majority of members, at least the ones that I know, tend to have names that infer a gender. I do remember a time many years ago when several members here used female usernames despite being male, although I never did understand why. I suppose that my username qualifies as one of those that does not signify my gender, although it would not be difficult for people to realise that I am an old male fool after reading my posts.

i shrug it off, too, and it depends on the topic being discussed also.

I'm often confused, until they mention their wife or some other telling detail. Many names are not obvious. It doesn't really matter, other than getting to know the person a little better.

Well, whenever I interact with people on myLot who don't have a gender-based profile picture, I don't actually judge them whether they are boys or girls. Interaction is what's important regardless of the genders anyway. He he. Kudos~

Mostly it should not matter. I have been fooled by some but not often. I go look at profiles if it has any relevance I try to find out from other discussions.

Back in the day, they were people that actually pretended to be a girl, and then posting naughty but not to the point of violating the rules. From them on, I just chose to interact and be more careful with how I answer the questions. .

I do like to know a person's gender, and I've had a couple of people just these last couple of days think I was male.

It is just okay, most of the time they think I am one too.

I don't know about a lot of people and it doesn't matter to me.

It's not a big deal because in English if you write to someone "you" it goes both for male and female. In Hebrew the second--person personal pronoun (singular) "you" splits for f. And m. For a male you say in Hebrew "Ata" and for a female "at".

Sometimes, after a long time I am shocked to find out that someone I thought was a male is a female, or the other way around!

There are a few whose gender I don't know but mostly it doesn't matter anyway.

I am one of those who thought that you are a boy . I have mistook some myLotters too as a boy but it turned out they were girls.

Whether that little yellow head rasp is a girl or a boy I would like to rip that red flippin thing out of its mouth.

so, can you reveal us your gender?

only drawback to not knowin' what one's gender is'd be callin' a 'sir' a 'ma'am' :)

What do you think...?

That is funny. I just respond back to people and go on. I don't really give it a lot of thought when their images or name is not one gender or the other so it makes it like a surprise when you do interact with them.