Negative thoughts

@Issa22 (86)
Makati, Philippines
November 10, 2015 6:40am CST
You don't actually avoid to think negative thoughts in life in case of positive things. They use to say that you must to think positive, so that it will results in positive also. If you think in negative ways then it will result in negative. I can't avoid to think negative things sometimes, especially if I have problems. When I think of negative things then I make plan for it. They say that it's important to be positive thinkers to be successful but if we look in positive ways and it will result in negative, that's what I feared.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
10 Nov 15
Yep fear! It's like worry, big enemy pretty much negative. Truth can't be denied though sometimes bad things happen regardless. What to do? ---- your turn.
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
11 Nov 15
@djgarner86 Thank you for sharing thoughts about driving but I also have a problem in life, that its so complicated. That's why I can't avoid thinking negative things. But its true that to think in positive is the answer.
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• Exeter, England
10 Nov 15
Worry is my problem at the moment, I'm learning to drive and have my test coming up - I can drive safely and done enough lessons but the fear will cause me to fail. Positive thinking must be the answer! Wish me luck!
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
11 Nov 15
@djgarner86 I remember my driving test. He said I wasn't the best driver in the world but I passed. No one is perfect but if we can still do our best keeping in mind everyone else on the road is not perfect either. Speaking of which someone cut me off illegally the other day.
@kevinakash (2084)
• Sri Lanka
10 Nov 15
to overcome the challenges there is only one thing to do that is only face the challenges . then the way you think will not be a prob
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
11 Nov 15
Yeah, I know it is for you to say. I just don't want to lose someone that's why..
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
10 Nov 15
To think negatively does not help to my mind. If we tune our minds to think positive thoughts, it would be better. Negative thoughts bring more negative thoughts in our minds. I always try to think positively and it helps me come out with better results.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
12 Nov 15
@Issa22 - You see you should not think too deeply that if you think positive in the beginning and the end result turns out to be negative, then you may feel disappointed. When the result comes, you could decide your next course of action at that point of time, there is no need to think in a negative manner in the beginning. I hope I am making sense?
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
11 Nov 15
@dpk262006 Thank you for that, Somewhat I feared that if I think in a positive ways it will come out in negative. So it will hurt me lot.
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
14 Nov 15
@dpk262006 Yeah you help me a lot.
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@mrtoffee (1522)
10 Nov 15
the golden word there is fear, if you still fear things going wrong even when you are trying to be positive they sadly will. The real key is to live without fear and if things don't quite work out as you hoped take the lessons learned and try again.
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• Exeter, England
10 Nov 15
To support your comment @mrtoffee FEAR - Fake Evidence Appearing Real.
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
11 Nov 15
@mrtoffee Thank you for the great advice somewhat I just feared that I might lose someone that's all.
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@mrtoffee (1522)
11 Nov 15
@Issa22 the thought of losing someone really is very scary, I hope all is ok and your fears don't come true.
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@aarifa (1210)
• India
11 Nov 15
the negative thoughts will reduce the trust of others . so be positive at anywhere .
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
18 Nov 15
@aarifa Ok thst's true....
• Exeter, England
10 Nov 15
How about thinking about it like a roller coaster - you have to have the times when it's all going down to make way for the times when it goes up. Like YinYang - good and bad, positive and negative all have a place and a balance between themselves
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
11 Nov 15
You are correct I'll keep that on mind, if i fail I need to get up as much as I can, prayers also.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
10 Nov 15
I rather be practical about events. There is no need to be positive or negative if we think about practical aspects. All of us need a place to stay. We just have to be practical about what we can afford, and where we can stay. No point getting too negative about missing out on a great location, or too positive about our ability to pay for a large house.
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
11 Nov 15
@scheng1 That great advice from you..
@slund2041 (3314)
• United States
20 Nov 15
I try hard to be a positive thinker. I hate myself when I allow negative thoughts to interfere with my life. There is a lot of negative things happening in my life and my families life, but I try to think positive.
• Canada
12 Nov 15
Sometimes when we look at our (negative) problems, we can figure out ways to change and then take action. That would be a positive result.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
11 Nov 15
what ever you say but sometimes due to situation negative thoughts come in mind and its spoile you.but its natural everyone suffer from it and some even know whats its result till thought negative.
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