Kids try your patience

@lokisdad (4226)
United States
November 11, 2015 9:25pm CST
When you are a parent your children will test your patience. Mines test mines on a daily basis especially when they don't want to do what they are told. My son has to read a book every day and then write a summary about what he read. He is now getting into Goosebumps by R. L. Stine I have a few of the books so I let him borrow them as long as he promises to not damage them. He started by reading The Curse of the Mummy's Tomb. It so happens the books main characters name is Gabe which is my son's name. That made him really want to read it and he was so into it that he read 3 chapters. When it came to the part where he had to summarize it he said I don't know what the book is about. I said well didn't you just read the book? Yes but nothing happened. So you just read 3 chapters of nothing is what you are saying? No dad its about the curse of the mummy. I told him go back and read it again I could have told you the book was about the curse of the mummy I need you to tell the teacher more about the story. So he read it again and kept giving me the same answer. He does this every time he doesn't want to do his reading assignments. I said put the book down and talk to me tell me what happened in the adventure. He starts to tell me and he actually got it correct this time. I said okay now write down the same thing you just told me. When you are done bring it to me so I can check it. About 10 mins later he comes into the living room with the homework sheet and he wrote the story was about the curse of the mummy. Gabe was thinking about all the adventures he would have. That's when I wanted to just ring his neck. We have been working on the one question for hours and he finally gave the right answer and then wrote that down. All I could do was say take this and erase it and don't come back until you write down the answer you gave me and he left. Once again he wrote the same thing I finally got so angry with him I said alright that's it. Give me all of your devices chargers and all the stuff that goes to them. When he brought them to me I put them in a cloth bag and said you see them say good bye because you won't be seeing them for a while. Oh and no television until you start acting like you have a brain in your head. Five minutes later I got a neatly written summary about the part of the book he read. I don't understand why couldn't he have done it right the first time. Had that been my wife dealing with him she would have probably blown a head gasket she has no patience at all.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
12 Nov 15
It's so funny how kids would rather waste time and be made do to things over and over instead of just doing it right the first time. Been there a dozen times with my own.
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• United States
12 Nov 15
@lokisdad Not here... I continue to make them redo it, then give them a lecture about doing it right the first time. Doesn't seem to help, they still keep doing it wrong.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
12 Nov 15
@katsmeow1213 they give you a run for your money they sometimes just wear me down i give in once in a while because I just don't have the energy to fight with them.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
12 Nov 15
I think that they feel if you get angry enough you will not make them do it.
@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
12 Nov 15
My grandson is the same way when it comes to his homework. He hates to write so he will play this terrible game over and over again until you basically want to ring his neck. What should of taken 20 min normally can drag out for 3 hours. On the other hand my grand daughter needs no help and she is done in no time with her home work.
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
12 Nov 15
It drives me nuts! Now when he wants to do it he will do it fast. At his other school the teacher would give him homework for the entire week on Monday he would finish all of it in less than 2 hours. The homework covered 20 math problems reading spelling. So I know he can do it and knows it which frustrates me I wouldn't be so mad if it took so long because he didn't get it.
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
12 Nov 15
@poehere we are having a problem with him trying to get attention and acting dumb or being a clown . we tell him negative attention is not the way to go. Our son is smart but when he has no interest in something he plays dumb. Being a parent is never easy.
@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
12 Nov 15
@lokisdad Yes I know. I had to help my grandson on more than one occasion and it seemed like the whole afternoon was wasted and we still didn't get it all done by the time his mom got home from work. Wow it drives me crazy because the child is smart and his placement tests prove it. I just think it is to get special attention from us and he wants to have more time. I don't know what else it could be.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
13 Nov 15
Totally agree with you, our children are really test our patience since they in the womb until they are adult, even until they are die. It is the reality of life that we can't avoid it.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
13 Nov 15
Its like they are given a license to drive you crazy lol My wife always jokes and says you know its only child abuse if you get caught beating them. And how come they don't have a parent abuse agency so I can call when they are torturing me by being bad?
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
13 Nov 15
@lokisdad Yes, having a child like given a license to drive which full of responsibility, patience, love, expectation and worries throughout the life.
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
13 Nov 15
@srisahara My wife must have arrived just when they were handing out patience lol probably because she spent too much time on the line handing out worry
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
12 Nov 15
Children can really give us some nerves but we just have to deal with them as they are lol I have a nephew who can decide he doesn't know what he is supposed to write and where and you just have to show him he hee
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
12 Nov 15
Lol they think they're so slick like we don't know what they're doing. Little do they know that we have already done it before they think of it.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
12 Nov 15
@lokisdad Oooh yeah and when they grow up that is when it will struck them that what they were doing was nothing new
@just4him (317315)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 15
He's testing his boundaries. It's good you didn't give in to him but forced him to do what he knew he could do.
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
13 Nov 15
Thanks he ''forgot'' his homeworK binder today but I had him do it anyway but it was the same thing from last night but worse he copied the book as if I was not going to notice. He said I didn't copy all of it I put a few of my own words. I said what you're done is called plagiarism and it's stealing someone else's work.
@funtool (246)
• Sargodha, Pakistan
12 Nov 15
I thinks as parent we should love our children enough to be patient with them. We were also children and did the same things in our childhood
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
12 Nov 15
it's certainly not easy to do. I am the more patient of us two. I was a lot like him my wife however was a great child didn't give her family a hard time she was actually a good student who actually liked school.
@funtool (246)
• Sargodha, Pakistan
12 Nov 15
@lokisdad you have to be nice with your children so that they will be nice with you when you are old. If you saw kindness, you will reap kindness
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
12 Nov 15
@funtool this is true but sometimes no matter how kind you are to them in your old age they forget it and stick you in a home anyway. We have told our kids you stick us in a home and you're out of the will and we will haunt you lol. I told them sticking me in the attic or basement before they stick me in a home.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 Nov 15
I think it's something that all kids do. I'm sure I tested my parents' patience when I was a kid, and my kids do test mine as well. It's a kid thing. Is it frustrating? Absolutely, but it's just what they do sometimes.
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
12 Nov 15
They will test you. Oh yes. They want those devices and so they'll go back and get it right. That's how that goes. They really want to see how much they can get away with. You held it down. Good for you.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
12 Nov 15
thanks its not easy because nobody likes to tell their kids no especially when they have that little pouty lip
• Kingston, Jamaica
12 Nov 15
So true! I have had my share of nonsense from my boys!