self help

I'm telling you, I'm one of the most insicure gals on earth. I still am, but I'm doing my best to just get out of it. My advice is this one: find REAL friends, you don't need a bunch, one is enough. But it has to be a REAL friend. There's nothing like helping and being helped, loving and being loved. I know it's working for me. I guess I'm just half way there, but at least I'm moving. You have to think that it's possible. It's not like you're born this way and will stay at that for the rest of your life. Keep The Faith.

Most of us as humanbeings are infested with fear of onething or other, because we want to live more and more. Secondly we are made to fear of certain thing for some social or religion reason so the memory of such preachings make us fear of something. If you want to free from yourself from certain fear question about certain fear to someone who is beyond fear and allways talk of making people free of fear. And I recommend that any one who is slave to lust, wealth and fame, or any one or two of these desires can never make any one else free fron fear but it make free from one fear from you and infest a new one at the same time so the cycle of personal interest keep working. Never go to such preacher who claim to make you fearless in the lieu of any of the above desire fulfilment for him/her. Just remamber that when you were a child you were not in position to save your self from any invesion from any one, because you have your mother to protect you. Now you are a grown up then who will make you fear! Remember that life is the gift of god he has made us and he will destroy us whenever he feels to do so. So why should we fear of loosing life which does not belong to our desires.

alway move with persons who are brave and bold enough... watch action and motivating movies. always be sure with each and every move what you make....thats it ....

A good suggestion would be to join a self-help group.... Toastmasters is a good one to start with, especially if you lack confidence talking in front of other people.