The Plant Graveyard

@paigea (36315)
Canada
November 21, 2015 7:38pm CST
From the time my late niece was about 6; she is the one who would think to water our house plants. My mom would always have nice plants started, potted and ready for me to take home when I visited. She tried so hard to help my niece, my daughters and I to have a nice home. But as a single mom I was just busy and frazzled and the house plants didn't make my list of important things to get done. Most of the plants died long lingering deaths. I seemed to just not notice their demise. One day my late niece said, "Can I take this out to the plant grave yard?" She was referring to yet another neglected plant that didn't make it. Another thing I hadn't noticed was the accumulation of pots with dead house plants out in the back yard. It was indeed a house plant graveyard. Her question just made me laugh; plant grave yard became a house hold term and the memory still gives me a smile. After my mother found out she asked for all of her pots back. My mom still planted new plants for us, but she gave them directly to my niece with clear instructions on their care. I still can't keep house plants alive. Luckily my husband can.
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@shaggin (72282)
• United States
5 Dec 16
I am so bad at keeping plants alive as well. Your plant graveyard story gave me a chuckle.
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@paigea (36315)
• Canada
5 Dec 16
It gave me a chuckle when she said that. It was a long time ago, but I love my memories of her.
@cindiowens (5120)
• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
24 Nov 15
I can't even keep the plastic ones alive, lol.
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@Namelesss (3365)
• United States
27 Nov 15
Awesome!!! I aint alone anymore. I water and water those plastic plants and they refuse to drink. go figure.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
22 Nov 15
Oh dear, I can relate to this! On Mothers Day this year my son gave us a lovely plant which, so far, I've managed to keep alive. Mothers Day is in May in New Zealand.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
26 Nov 15
I must say that at the beginning, my husband was better at taking care of our houseplants. But I learned over the years.
@paigea (36315)
• Canada
26 Nov 15
I might have improved but now it sees that it's better if one person is in charge. so, that is my husband.
@amnabas (14713)
• Karachi, Pakistan
22 Nov 15
Yes they needs lots of attention and care that keep me aaway too from plating.
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@Bella128 (2471)
• United States
22 Nov 15
My grandmother, believe it or not, has a bunch of fake plants in her garden. I think that's rather smart on her part because she doesn't have to worry about taking care of them. Honestly if you don't get too close to them you can't even tell that they aren't real and since they are outside most people wouldn't think twice if they were real or fake.
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@paigea (36315)
• Canada
24 Nov 15
That sounds cute; all the plants that don't wilt. Our garden is mostly vegetables
@GardenGerty (160996)
• United States
22 Nov 15
I go through phases with them. I have some monster sized ones that have been around for years. Others, smaller ones, die almost immediately.
@allknowing (137896)
• India
27 Nov 15
If at all plants die in our garden that would have nothing to do with me as I care for them the best way I can. It is the weather that does them in sometimes I prefer to call my garden paradise.
@jstory07 (140028)
• Roseburg, Oregon
25 Nov 15
I was always called a plant killer because I could not get plants to grew.
@paigea (36315)
• Canada
25 Nov 15
I know what it's like
@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
22 Nov 15
My wife grew up on a farm and has a green thumb. If not, the plants around our house would be doomed.
@paigea (36315)
• Canada
22 Nov 15
I do better with vegetables it seems. Well, they seem better at just growing. Outside, it is still up to my husband to take care of the pots on the deck and the flowers in flower beds.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50543)
• United States
22 Nov 15
I really don't have a green thumb either.
• United States
22 Nov 15
I have one Christmas cactus that I've managed to keep alive but I think it would thrive regardless. I have no luck with plants even if they are supposed to be hardy. What a nice memory to share with us
@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
22 Nov 15
I'm sorry for you loss, I would miss her too and so would the plants dying in the window. I never notice until they are gasping at their last breath. My husband has noticed it's not a priority for me either so he waters them now.
@paigea (36315)
• Canada
22 Nov 15
I am glad you also found someone to care about the house plants.
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@JudyEv (342225)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Nov 15
I am still a bit like that. My poor plants need to be very tough to survive in our house. And I have lots of empty pots too.
@paigea (36315)
• Canada
23 Nov 15
Ha ha ha, at least I have company.
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@norcal (4889)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
22 Nov 15
Sorry your niece is not around to water your plants anymore.