I must be doing something right at myLot!

United States
November 22, 2015 6:31am CST
I am not bragging about my bank or how many friends I have gained here. No, this is much different. I try to do my best welcoming newbies and encouraging them. We all know how it feels to be new. I also have encouraged all of you to do the same. This morning when I checked by my messages here on myLot I found one that I have to share with you. The message is from a new user who thanked me for encouraging new members. Wow, that really made me feel good, and it touched my heart. Reach out to the new members and offer encouragement - it's a good thing to do!
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36 responses
@LadyDuck (472124)
• Switzerland
22 Nov 15
I still remember when I joined the other site and I knew nobody, I was so grateful to the few who were kind enough to follow me. Let's help the newbies.
7 people like this
• United States
22 Nov 15
I remember my very first days at all the different sites...some were scary and lonely at the start!
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
22 Nov 15
It really gives one a warm feeling when people thank you for welcoming them. I, too, like to try to put people on the right track and am often thanked for giving them a good start. It is sometimes rather disappointing to see people come here and make a first post clearly without even bothering to try to find out what the site is about and how it works. Presumably, they have been told by friends or found it mentioned somewhere that MyLot 'pays you to post' so that is what they try to do, even if they have so little English that they are incapable of reading more about the site! I think that every site has its fair share of this kind of new member. A few of them do stay and become good, regular members and you can almost never tell, at first, which of them will, so it's always worth welcoming them as warmly as possible and pointing them in the direction of the essential information so that they have a chance, at least, of making a go of it here.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Very true. Getting that message really made me feel like I did something nice for the person and for the site.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
22 Nov 15
Deff, both new users and posts with no response, those are discouraging too!
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• United States
22 Nov 15
I wrote about the no responses yesterday. The list went down fast then.
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• Centralia, Missouri
22 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill yeah I knocked out a nice sized chunk. did a few more today
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• United States
22 Nov 15
@Jessicalynnt You get the gold medal 'chunk' size!
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@maggs224 (2320)
• Alicante, Spain
22 Nov 15
I agree with you it is great to reach out to new members and it is a win win situation as you both feel better :D
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Absoutely! And it only takes a few minutes to do it.
@TheHorse (220452)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Nov 15
It's good to make new members feel welcome. I was thankful for the responses to my "Hello, I am new here" post.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Those Hello I am new do generate lots of comments and welcoming remarks.
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@funtool (246)
• Sargodha, Pakistan
22 Nov 15
When a new user joins he do need motivation and affirmation that he is at right place, so you doing good job
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Thanks you very much - I hope to do even more.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
@funtool I will and you an join in too.
@funtool (246)
• Sargodha, Pakistan
22 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill keep it up dear
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Nov 15
Thats wonderful ! I normally respond to at least one or two discussions started by new members or the ones that have no responses ...I agree , as a new member you are not sure of yourself nor the site. so helpful members really can help at that stage ..
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• United States
22 Nov 15
I think so to and maybe it will give some the incentive to continue.
@suzzy3 (8341)
22 Nov 15
Newbies are the lotters of tomorrow. Lets all give them a go.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
True - but then what are the veterans? LOL!
@allknowing (137994)
• India
22 Nov 15
The moment I get a notification that someone has followed me I immediately follow them without even looking at their profile and this is my way to welcome them.
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• United States
23 Nov 15
It might work that way but sometimes it's good to look at some of their discussions first to see if they are into topics you are into.
@slund2041 (3314)
• United States
22 Nov 15
I am trying to reach out to everyone. I know it must be discouraging for new members not to see any responses so I try hard to give them all some love, as many as time permits anyway. I know when I first joined here it made me feel nice to have some responses. Everyone treated me so nice. It seems there is not a lot of posting happening today though.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
It is rather quiet today - but I think lots are probably on vacation or getting ready for the big Turkey Day.
@silvermist (19702)
• India
22 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill I am glad that you got acknowledged when you spread the love around..Also I think it was nice that the new member sent you a message thanking you.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Yes, he is the first person to do that.
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• Eugene, Oregon
22 Nov 15
That is nice to hear. I am glad you were recognized like that.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Yes, thanks, me too - I think that's the first thanks I got in a long time!
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• United States
22 Nov 15
@sugartoes Yes, all those things together help in many ways.
@Auntylou (4264)
• Oxford, England
22 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill I am sorry to hear that you haven't been thanked in ages, you seem such a sweetie!
@JustEmm (148)
• United States
22 Nov 15
I appreciate your kindness in knowing we all have a learning curve when we do something new.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Quite right and that applies to all aspects of life - we learn..
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@JustEmm (148)
• United States
22 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill Thank you for such a wonderful response! Are you a Teacher? Your compassion would make you a great one.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
23 Nov 15
I am also a newbie here, I just registered a few days ago.
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• United States
23 Nov 15
Welcome to myLot! Enjoy yourself and have fun. If you have questions feel free to ask, people are very helpful here.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
23 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill wow thank you so much! I think I will really enjoy here.
@marguicha (223885)
• Chile
22 Nov 15
I know how you feel. Ialways feel thankful and proud when I find new people following me.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
22 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill,You are doing a great job.I too visit posts by new users almost everyday.Most of them need help from us who are experienced members of the site.
@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
22 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill In fact,it's you who inspired me to visit them.I had read a post by you on this topic.
• United States
22 Nov 15
Absolutely correct and I am glad to hear you visit them also.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
22 Nov 15
I do as much as I can in that department.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
If we all do one a day that's a huge help.
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
22 Nov 15
You're right - we were all newbies once, and the least we can do is to welcome them.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
22 Nov 15
Good morning,yes I believe that you are doing the right thing.
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Thank you - I have always tried to help others no matter what site I was on.
22 Nov 15
that's very nice! it's great when you can make someone feel welcome & it is great to be appreciated. a win win
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• United States
22 Nov 15
Yes, that thank you made me smile for sure.
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