The girls get married at an early age in my hometown.
By Summer
@LLSummer (586)
Guizhou, China
November 25, 2015 7:47am CST
I don't know whether you get married or not . And if you got married I am sure you must marry him for love. However,there are still something about marriage I want to share with all of you.
In my hometown, most of young women get married at an early age( most of them are 16-18, and some just are 14) I don't understand why they enter into marry so early. In fact, when they just graduated junior high school,lot of them didn't decided to go to senior high school.so that their parents ask them for entering into marry with someone their parents choosing for .Maybe you think it is acceptable, by the way I just want to know if you in the position ,what would you do? many of them choose to accept it , and those young women thought it is destiny and them have to accept it. How pathetic they are, to be with someone they don't love.
I hope oneday when I get married with someone who must be my MR.Right. now my mom always say it is time for you to get married because I am 21. at the age my mom always think I am so old enough to marry. How funny it is?
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
25 Nov 15
you point is right that age 14 to 18 is not for marry though they love but lee some limitation and understanding.in my country girls should not marry till 18+ but as my way its still low its should be 23 to 24,reason is that in that age they become mature and well understand though they understand before age.in teenage they not know what is right and wrong they just see love and marry but its not all they must have to see background of both ,earnings and other thing also.so if they reach 23 to 25 they understand responsibility and nature of around should partner is good or not because she earns and fully study so well mature and strong to take decession. but still some marry without knowing person and by parents saying ,in that age they have to study and learn hoe to live they are busy with child and family responsibility so they are not become independent.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
25 Nov 15
@LLSummer i am from your neighbure country india if you still not know the i am from that country whose P.M. is NARENDRA MODI
@LLSummer (586)
• Guizhou, China
25 Nov 15
@birjudanak I know where you are now ,TO be honest you and I just live closely and we are family. both China and India are ancient country , owing to that we all are so proud of it.
@youless (112582)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Nov 15
Oh... I really can't believe it. In my memory the legal marriage time for a girl in our country is about 21 years old. I don't know how the little girls get married so early in your hometown. Perhaps they will get the paper later. In the big cities, as you know people tend to get married later. I got married when I was 28 years old. As to 21 years old, I even didn't graduate from the university. I think it is better to get married later than earlier. You need some time to finish the education, and then work. Meanwhile you need some time to find the right one and you still need to spend some time to see whether you suit each other. All takes time.
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@LLSummer (586)
• Guizhou, China
25 Nov 15
Ahaha. I know most of you just cann't belive it . But you know in Guizhou province the things happened is normal(at least in my parents' mind. yeah , they get the paper later , at the same time the paper doesn't matter to them. and one thing I want to tell you it seems to be legal marriage time for the girl to marry is 20 and the boy is 22. Right?
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