Deciding When to Put an Old Dog Down

Buffalo, New York
November 29, 2015 8:45am CST
Out 13-year-old Lhasa Apso, Sneakers, is on his way out. It's heartbreaking to know that, after all these years, there will soon be a time when he will no longer be my husband's #1 companion. Last week, when Dave (my husband) came home from work, Sneakers was having a very bad day. He couldn't walk. Every time he tried to get up his hind legs gave out on him. Dave was devastated. He thought it was time to put Sneakers down. He didn't want his dog suffering. Dave called around to get prices for putting Sneakers to sleep and having him cremated. It was a horrible day. However, Sneakers' time hasn't come yet. I'm not sure if he heard all the talking about putting him down or he sensed Dave's devastation, but Sneakers is now back up and doing his best to walk. He isn't in pain. He eats good. He still goes outside, although he has many accidents in the house (something that turns my stomach and I wonder when it will stop). Friends and family have said to just put him down. Our hearts tell us he's not ready. Is it hard taking care (and putting up with) an old dog? Yes, it sure is. But it's hard taking care of any elderly body, whether it's a dog or a parent. I firmly believe that Sneakers will let us know when he's ready to go. He doesn't appear to be suffering at all. He just has a hard time walking. Some days are better than others. Have you ever had to decide when to put an old dog down? How did you know it was time?
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@Ponder243 (197)
• United States
29 Nov 15
We currently have a 13 year old Cairn Terrier (Holly) that we have had since she was 8 weeks old. She is a huge part of our lives. We are beginning to see the effects of her age as well. I can't imagine life without her and I know it will be hard to be without her, but I would never want her to suffer either! We do get attached to our "babies".
• Buffalo, New York
30 Nov 15
@Ponder243 Yes, we do get attached to our babies. It's a very tough decision. Many people say to put the dog down when they lose quality of life. I think he's still spunky to some degree and he's not suffering. He's just old. The funny thing is, I was trying to talk my husband into putting him down months ago because he wouldn't stop having accidents in the house. But when the dog had a bad day and my husband was considering putting him down I said no, he's not ready yet. lol
• United States
1 Dec 15
@MichelleBwriting Our Holly is not as active as she used to be, but then again neither are we! There have been times when my husband and I discussed her "end." and she appears to be okay most of the time, just slower.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Nov 15
you can tell when he is in pain.They normally do a lot of lickiing on the leg and foot.When you see this. Then either give him a baby aspirin or time to talk to the vet.I would wait.
• Buffalo, New York
30 Nov 15
@amadeo, I never thought of the baby aspirin. I think I will try that. Our dog does do a lot of licking, but he's always been that way, so I never gave it thought. But, I do think he might have some arthritis in his hips or legs so the baby aspirin might help. I agree, we should wait. It doesn't "feel" like it's his time and I think he's letting us know that.")