Your friend is pregnant same as your other friend, why aren't you?

@annavi23 (6522)
Philippines
December 2, 2015 1:38am CST
Hello everyone! :) Have you ever felt like being in a situation where you feel that you are different from others? Come to think of it, we all have differences. So, what path others take doesn't mean that you also have to take, right? So what if she is pregnant and also your other friend is, or even the other is wanting to get pregnant. Why don't you? I mean, does it really matter if I wasn't pregnant or is it like a responsibility or obligation? Come on! It's not something that you have to rush and say you like this guy, you'll grab him into bed and make, right? Just to be pregnant and have a baby... I can't believe why other people would ask something like that. Why do they like to compare one from the other. We all have differences. Different paths to take and decisions or goals to meet. Is it bad that your other friend isn't pregnant yet? Is it really a BIG DEAL? My GOD! What do you think, fellas?
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
2 Dec 15
Like people asking me, why am not married yet when all of my friends have families already
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
2 Dec 15
What do you feel about that?
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Dec 15
and really it is none of their business yet they will ask
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
3 Dec 15
@Hatley true.. they should be worrying more of themselves than others
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Dec 15
You are so right and yet some women will leap into a marriage with the first man she dates just to keep upwith her fri ends, That si silly as we all are different and shou ld not let others dictate to us our own actions
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
3 Dec 15
hello @Hatley yes, I really don't know why they think like that. Do I really have to fit in or should I really do the same? It's as if saying that you are different so, I will not count you as my friend anymore. I mean, they didn't say the words but that was the feeling.
@youless (112670)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Dec 15
This is very funny. As pregnancy as well as the marriage, everybody has different timing to it. It is not like graduation which almost all the students graduate from school at the same time. It doesn't matter for me at all whether my friends get married or pregnant at all. I have my own schedule for it.
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
3 Dec 15
@youless, if you are in the situation, what would you tell your "friends"?