What Would You Say?
By Gaebriel
@secret225 (12)
Manila, Philippines
December 7, 2015 9:52am CST
I have a friend that is always asking for advice. Advice about his lovelife, but I just can't make myself to tell him that he doesn't have a chance with that girl.
He already been rejected by the same girl, he doesn't know how to give up, even though he knows that, the girl like someone else.
What Would You Say to Him?
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@IreneVincent (15962)
• United States
7 Dec 15
Instead of telling him anything negative, ask him what he likes so much about the girl and why he thinks he has a chance with her. Let him do the talking and he might figure out that his chances with her might not be so good. It's best not to give advice on the subject of "love."
Ask him a lot of questions and maybe he will figure it out by himself. That way you don't have to say anything that would upset him. Just let him talk.
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@secret225 (12)
• Manila, Philippines
7 Dec 15
I guess you're right, but he always says that he falls for her every time she smile.
Thank you for the advice, i'll hold on to that.
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@IreneVincent (15962)
• United States
7 Dec 15
@secret225 Sometimes people ask for advice when what they really want is to talk about their situation. They want what's called a "sounding board" someone to bounce their thoughts off of. They just want someone to listen. I hope he figures it out. He obviously counts you as a friend and that's a good thing.
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@secret225 (12)
• Manila, Philippines
8 Dec 15
@IreneVincent Thank You! It really helps, because I just want him to be happy, but if talking with him will really help, i'll gladly do it.
@pransssss (4)
• Manila, Philippines
8 Dec 15
Oh thats bad for him but tell him that be brave.
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