What do i do with this one?
@Missmwngi (12915)
Nairobi, Kenya
December 8, 2015 5:33pm CST
Sometimes i never understand people. It seems there is so much than we know.
There is this lady who lives around us and we are from the same place back in the village. She doesn't have much of education and so cannot get a good job. She has been doing casual jobs and keeps complaining how needy she is. My sister being so generous has been helping her with money.
That is not the pissing part. She has been lieing to my sister that her sister who is well off does not help her. Today my sister met with her sister and the sister started telling her how much she has been helping her. That every time she has a problem she sends her money. She is actually trying to organize a job for her and you know what she always say;that her sister cannot get her a job either.
We almost thought of bad things about her sister until today. Now i feel so pissed of with her because she is just lieing to get money. That is not something i expected of her
My sister will not be helping her now. Her lies will not help at all
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
And more so telling lies about her own sister that she cannot help her,ooh my
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Dec 15
@Driftr Mmmmh maybe she thought it would last long enough for her but it came too soon
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
If that is what she was looking for she will get it now
@Driftr (201)
• Coimbatore, India
10 Dec 15
@Missmwngi She would have thought that she can escape for lifetime without letting each other know and keep earning money from them. She needs a treatment for that now.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Dec 15
She perhaps did not anticipate that she could be caught lying. It was absolutely wrong on her part to ask for help from your sister on the pretext that her own sister does not help her. From now onwards, you has lost your trust and she has to blame herself for it.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
Sure she never thought my sister will know
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@rocky1980 (530)
• Chandigarh, India
9 Dec 15
very diplomatic lady. She would do well in politics. One should always stay away from such people. For they never help anyone. If you ask them for help, they would always come up with pitiable excuses.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
I agree,only politicians are so good in such lies. Oooh yeah i don't think she would be so much wiling to help someone
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@kellyr634 (416)
• United States
9 Dec 15
Sounds like she is saying whatever she needs to, to get a handout.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
You can say that again but now she got to find someone else to lie to
@marijuana (570)
• Tel Aviv, Israel
9 Dec 15
that's too bad. It's great to be able to help but such kind of a person does not deserve it.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
Sure,i better help someone who is really in need than this one. Never again will i even think of helping her
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@venkataraman_vc (5293)
• Chennai, India
9 Dec 15
Now your sister has to think about gently coming out of the situation.
I don't think just stopping helping won't end it.
Next time the lady asks a help, most probably your sister may react with all emotion. Knowing that her lies won't help, that lady may start bashing or start telling bad stories about your sister. Or start making nuisance around.
To keep that lady away, start talking your problems with her. Do this whenever she comes for help few times. She will be alarmed and never be back.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
We decided to also be in need always and we leave the rest for her to figure out
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
@sugartoes And if we let her know that we already know the truth she might come up with so much defence
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
You should hear her yapping about how much she is in need of cash
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
All they care about is satisfying themselves nothing else
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
My sister was soo nice not to tell her sister what she always say but from now on my sister will not be helping her
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@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
9 Dec 15
That's pretty bad when a person does theses things doesn't make a lot of sense people now days make up lies to get things bad idea on their part so sorry for this behavior.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
Well now things will turn bad for her,i can only pity her
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
She got to sort herself now. She is yet to know that my sister knows the truth since she is not going to tell her but i am sure she will notice that the help is no longer there
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@Iam_jauntyjen (5017)
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9 Dec 15
At least now, you and your sister know the truth.Some people would not care about self-respect just to get money. That woman is not different from our neighbor who is also bum.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
It is so unbelievable how far people can go to get money
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
9 Dec 15
Well I'm glad you know the truth so your sister doesn't keep giving her money and can use it on herself. I hate when people do that just use other people to get money. What is she needing all the money for if her sister sends her money?
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
Mmmh and to imagine i was thinking of joining my sister in helping her
@Dragonairy1 (1722)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
9 Dec 15
What a horrible thing for her to do.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 15
I am glad she did too,now she can direct her money into a better use
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