Do you trust people easily?

i will wait for that day i think one day we all realize the bad things we did to others and i hope those who hurt me see what they have done and regret even though i dont wish nothing bad to them. but i wish that they regret the bad they did.

Yes you are right :)

@sweetloveforeve Don't lose heart. You will find a sincere guy soon, just keep looking. We all do mistakes in judging others and however, with time we learn our lesson thereby our decision making gets better. By the way, I am sincere too.

@rocky1980 its great that you are sincere most part of guys are just too sweet at first and in the end reveal themselves as stupid careless creatures. thank god not all guys are like that. nice meeting you have a good weekend

just the same as me. i always trust people too much and got disappointed so many times. friends, guys that i loved. is like most part of people i met disappointed me. people we meet are never who they seem. each day that passes i get more convinced that meeting a sincere person in this world is almost impossible.

me too. there was a time that i trusted everyone and i cant say that i changed completely. but i consider to be wiser now than before. there was a time that i believed everything people told me and now i become suspicious of some things sometimes.

@else34 aw im so sorry that he did that to you. but he didnt force you to do anything with him did he? did you have to push him and run? sometimes we have bad surprises from those we like the most.

@sweetloveforeve Bad experiences to have a positive aspect.They teach us a lot and they show us the true faces of people we trust.One of my friends who I trusted was elder than me.His true intentions were revealed when one day he tried to be too physical with me.It was the experience that kept haunting me for months.

thats smart i think we all should think like that. or as some people say: i trust, distrusting. that means we trust but at the same time we are ready for disappointement in case it happens.

@softbabe44 yes the problem is that sometimes are just so sweet to us. they are always there when we need and suddenly change into a different person. this already happened to me a couple of times. mostly when i like a guy. in the end he always change into a careless person

@sweetloveforeve We just got to be careful and take notice.

jeff im also like that and i always trust everyone. im innocent also and thats why i got hurt already many times you probably wont believe me but in two places where i worked, i was very sweet to people i didnt know well, two colleagues and they were really bad to me. one of them was 19 years and two kids i lent money to her i knew her since two days, because her daughter was sick and she needed money for medicines and she stole a cellphone and tried to put the blame on me. they believed it wasnt me because the day the cellphone disappeared i wasnt working. was my day off. if i went to work that day they could find it was me because she said i asked her if there were cameras in the place we change clothes and that was a lie i never asked her that. she never gave the money back that i lent her it was 30 euros. but i wasnt sad because of that, what hurt me was that i knew her for 2 days, lent her money because was sorry because her daughter was sick and wanted to help her and she tried to blame me for something she did. in the other place i worked, me and one of my friends had the same place to put our clothes. then, a new colleague came to work with us and she didnt have a place to put her things. so i asked my friend if was ok that she could put in the same place as us. and she did that. then one day i went to work, and my friend was crying and a colleague of mine, a boy that was very sweet also, told me that he was suspicious that something really bad would happen because he told me her cellphone disappeared. then, after like 15 minutes my chief came and told me to go with her and she was seeing all my stuff to see if i stole her cellphone. i just wanted to cry :( then later that day they told me that my friend's cellphone was found inside of a pair of shoes that were there. then they found out that it was my new colleague who had done that. and my manager didnt fire her because it was only like two more months until her contract ends but she took her out of the cashier job and she went to the corridors and worked in there. so you see? i continue trusting people a lot because i cant change who i am but jeff sadly there are many people who are really bad

@moffittjc thank you so much jeff what you said made me really happy. i wont change who i am but sometimes i feel so sad because im always too sweet and most part of guys i like always act careless even though i am so sweet to them. im tired you know. its like the girls who dont care are more loved than those who care like me.

@sweetloveforeve Cat, what is really sad is that there are bad people in this world who take advantage of someone like you who is so trusting. I'm sorry to hear that those things happened to you, but don't ever change who you are! We need more sweet, honest, caring and trusting people in this world! It sounds like you have a heart of gold! I admire that!

i think you should trust but be careful at the same time. for example i trust everything that people tell me and i shouldnt. many people lie. but is like i always trust. even stories that are hard to believe. and i got disappointed many times. i just have to open my eyes.

@sakeguci i always trust people and thats why i almost always end up hurt. i will keep trusting people as always but i will try not to believe in everything they tell me. for example with guys some of them told me that they liked me and after awhile left like i was nothing.

@sweetloveforeve if you do that it's like you don't have full trust with them and it will make you suffer. you must think and trust with this one

you are smart by doing that. you let time pass by and then figure out how the person really is. that way you dont get so hurt. me for example trust very easy. i always think that people are sweet and believe everything they say and in the end i get disappointed.

yes we get stronger but at the same time we are unhappy. and im afraid it comes one day that i wont be able to trust anyone and change my personality. i like me for who i am. even sometimes i get angry at myself for being too innocent sometimes. i hope no one disappoints you anymore.

yes we have a soft heart i just wish that one day we can be really happy. because with so much suffering i think i deserve to be happy for once. i dont think i can get more disappointments. i already been through some really terrible things.

you are a smart person. i wish i was more like you. sometimes i get angry at myself because im too innocent sometimes and thats why i get disappointed almost all the time.

its better to be like that than trust easily. but i guess you were already disappointed many times for you to be like this now. usually we are all innocent and trusty at first. until we get hurt and change.

im happy you trust people. but sadly most part of people are not who we think they are. they pretend many times and we get hurt in the end. mostly with those we really loved. and end up being liars.

@sweetloveforeve Then We can trust them with careful OK

ok thanks for sharing ^^

i would like that more people were like me. i dont mean that im the best person in the world not that. but im a good person who is honest and is always sweet to everyone. and in the end im always disappointed by those i like you know. im tired sometimes.

@sweetloveforeve Let us not lose the goodness in us just because of few; the world survives because the majority are good and go out of the way to help others - siva

yes you are right and we should always have our eyes open at all times. because most part of disappointments come from those who are more closer to us. usually our best friend or someone we love.