Relationships Are Hard for Me!
By Mandy
@x0MandyLynn0x (1056)
Canada
December 9, 2015 2:07pm CST
I'm not sure what it is, but I don't have very much luck when it comes to relationships! I don't know why I settle for the wrong types of people most of the time. Maybe I need to work on myself better? Or maybe it takes a bunch of bad apples before you find the good one?
I know my last experience with my ex girlfriend was horrible. She put me through hell and back. The emotional abuse, was hard. Half the time I was ignored..
I guess this is me ranting. But I really hope to find someone one day who will be right for me. And not ones that honestly feel were sociopaths. Well least the last one was.
One day. Good will come, I hold onto hope!
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15 responses
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32695)
• Calgary, Alberta
10 Dec 15
Try to find girls who are outside your comfort zone. Sometimes trying to date someone outside our cookie cutter ideals might be the solution on finding love.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
10 Dec 15
Don't all girlfriends create hell in relationships? Seems all mine have. Perhaps why I've been single for an absurd stretch of time.
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@joanreyes00 (43)
• Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic
9 Dec 15
someday you will find the right one for you. you just wait
@totobasso (331)
• Canada
9 Dec 15
I remember when I found someone that was perfect for me but it turned out that I was not perfect for her. 
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@GardenGerty (160717)
• United States
10 Dec 15
I think this has been an area I have been lucky with. I am sorry you have a hard time.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
10 Dec 15
I was never good at relationships either. And my marriage broke up also. Not because of me though. She did cheat. I am in a relationship now and she is the one I should have married. But it is what it is. Sometimes we need time away from a relationship in order for us to be able to handle one.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Dec 15
I am sure you will find the right one for you soon. It does take many bad apples to find the right one, but it's so worth it once you do! Have patience, it will happen. =)
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@Letranknight2015 (51971)
• Philippines
9 Dec 15
Every single person has a lot of flaws in their lives, no one is perfect. but maybe some day you'll find some one perfect for you.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Dec 15
The reassuring thing is almost everyone at one point felt the you did. You're not alone in thinking this. It will get better.. don't worry, be happy. xD
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@Katlynn (366)
• United States
10 Dec 15
Sometimes without realizing it, we choose the same type of person and end up in the same type of bad relationship. One thing to help ensure a better relationship next time around is to get to know someone very slowly. Know what your criteria is and weed out the ones who don't fit that criteria.
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@anamika5776 (250)
• New Delhi, India
10 Dec 15
Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?
@Dannylinsen (9)
• Australia
10 Dec 15
my ex used me to smoke bud, sleep in my bed and to steal my butter...
"You sure you don't want any toast with that butter??"
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Dec 15
I do think you will find the right one soon, that treats you well, don't give up hope.
