Arranging a funeral yourself

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I listened to an inspiring radio talk where a woman describes how she decided to organise her 8 year old son's funeral herself. Virginia Prifti's son started to become ill at the age of seven with a rare genetic disease called Adrenoleucodystrophy (ALD) and were told that it was terminal. He died at home on a Friday and his sister was out for that night, so his mum and dad carried him upstairs and thinking about rigor mortis, dressed him in his favourite clothes. Having spoken to a funeral director who was completely unenthusiastic about an eco funeral, trying to push her into buying an expensive oak coffin, she decided that maybe she could do it better. They were all a bit scared of the boy's body, and his sister slept at a friend's house for two nights but then she spent time with her friends playing in her brother's room with his toys, stroking his face and doing his hair and covering his bed in rose petals. They bought a wicker coffin online, filled it with Leylandii leaves and herbs and friends put in flowers. The family found it a very healing process. What do you think? Could you do something similar?