Sent text message to wrong person

@sishy7 (27167)
Australia
December 10, 2015 3:24am CST
I was having lunch with a friend when my sister sent me a text message. I ignored it until I was home and replied to her message. Once sent, I realized it went to the friend I was just with instead. I panicked a bit because I knew I mentioned that friend’s name in the message to my sister. I said to her (among other things) that I was sorry I didn’t reply earlier because I was with ‘y’ (my friend’s name). Good thing I didn’t say anything bad about my friend to my sister. It’s bad enough now that my friend saw my personal messages to my sister about some family affairs. But it would have been more disastrous if the message was unintentionally sent to a wrong number yet containing negative remarks or something about the unintended recipient. Have you done something similar before?
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Dec 15
I try to never put anything negative in writing about ANYbody. I don't think I could cope with the consequences.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Yeah, it was enough to make me felt awkward as I apologized to my friend... I wouldn't know what to do if there was anything negative in the message I mistakenly sent to her.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Dec 15
@JudyEv Same here Judy.
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• United States
9 Feb 16
It's better to keep your negative thoughts to yourself. That's what I was saying about Facebook and the things that persons broadcast on there for the whole world to see and read. It's crazy!
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@Syllogism (206)
• China
10 Dec 15
I once wanted to call one of my second cousins who had four brothers with similar names, and I called the wrong person's home phone then asked for the guy I wanted, and luckily, he was in this very brother's home and I found him successfully.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
He he... you lucked out on that one... If you called the right home number, you would not find him and you'll probably have to call the other number anyway if you wanted to find the right person straight away then.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
10 Dec 15
I have done more horrible stuff. And I am sure reading about it yours will never be any issue. I had sent out a love text to my boss instead of my then girlfriend (now my wife). And the boss was an aged lady. I realized only when she called back and asked what do you do at work!!! And to complicate matters when my wife (then girlfriend) had called up, I was like why havent you replied to my SMS. That incident had a drastic effect on the rules. Since that day, no employee was allowed cell phones during work hours. Most of the colleagues did not know until I left the job about who was responsible for that rule. Surely they would have me killed if they knew before
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
11 Dec 15
@sishy7 It was good that you did not speak ill of your friend on the SMS. Such mistakes can make irreparable damages. I have learned it is safer to call up rather than text. The past few months I have been using Whatsapp on my android, but as there are only 4-5 friends, it seems to be easier. But still, I prefer to speak rather than text.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
You're right, my situation was nothing compared to that one... My boss name is so similar to one of my sons and sometimes when my son called me I thought it was my boss whose name showed up on my screen... I always double check when I send messages to my son also as I certainly don't want to have them sent to my boss inadvertently...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
12 Dec 15
@thesids That is becoming a rather popular chatting app, isn't it?
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@skysnap (20153)
10 Dec 15
I did that once too. one of my friend wanted some religious advice and I called the wrong number and gave my friends info and advice question. and also gave them my photo
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Uh oh, they must have been confused why you gave them all the advice while your friend who requested it wondered why you haven't given it to her/him.
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@skysnap (20153)
11 Dec 15
@sishy7 yes, I was embarassed because his description of life and my face lol. and imagine it was supposed to be given to priest for confession and advice. and some random person got it. so feeling embarssed.
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• United States
10 Dec 15
If I am meeting up with friends we text each other 'I"m here" or "I'll be there in five" etc, so it could very well happen to me yet. It, however, has not yet happened that I text the wrong person. I can imagine your embarrassment over the friend knowing some family affairs you didn't want known.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Yes, the friend was the last person I text before I tried to reply to my sister. I guess I mis-touched my contact list and the last number used showed up or something. Sometimes there's a bit of 'delay' with my touch screen mobile - and when I thought I've touched an item, it actually was still loading and I ended up touching a different item.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
@ScribbledAdNauseum Oh yes, I gave up on that voice activation/recognition feature a long time ago...
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• United States
11 Dec 15
@sishy7 My iphone 4s does that sometimes too, it is annoying. Of course Siri also doesn't understand me a lot of times, which is also annoying.
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• United States
10 Dec 15
I sent an e-mail to the wrong person - in the e-mail I talked very badly about the woman...long story..
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
12 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill Yes, you should... I look forward to reading it!
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Oh, exactly what I was afraid of...
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• United States
11 Dec 15
@sishy7 I should write about it, in a way it was quite funny.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
10 Dec 15
There have been a couple of occasions that I have sent text messages to a group of people and inadvertently including someone else, but none that really constituted a problem.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
11 Dec 15
@sishy7 There certainly a great potential to cause havoc with a misdirected text message.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
I really need to be extra careful next time...
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@much2say (55655)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Dec 15
I'm afraid of that - so I check and double and triple check before I hit send. I often get those group messages, and sometimes I only want to text to one particular person - so I gotta make sure of it.
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@much2say (55655)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Dec 15
@sishy7 Hubby is having that problem - but he actually presses the right contact and it ends up being someone else (I've witnessed this several times - the wrong contact name isn't anywhere near the right one). His phone is seriously messed up!
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
13 Dec 15
@much2say Oh no, that definitely would not be his doing if he mis-sent a message!
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
13 Dec 15
My touch screen mobile could be tricky sometimes... I meant to touch one thing and my finger ended up touching a different thing!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
Of course , i sometimes mis-sent some messages and usually it's to my daughter . And she would forward it to me again . She also sometimes mis-sent a message or two for her boyfriend . I also send it back to her with he he he .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
@sishy7 None that i can remember , except i giggled at the way he calls him - boboo . What an endearment is that .
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD I wonder what he calls her - momoo?
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Oops, were there any lovey dovey messages for her boyfriend?
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Dec 15
No I am very glad that I have never done that.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Yes, it's a horrible feeling to have the moment I realized the text was mis-sent.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Dec 15
Yes, it's happened to me, but only with innocuous meassages, thank goodness.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
12 Dec 15
Slip of a finger seems to happen easier with me using a touch screen smart phone...
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
11 Dec 15
no, but it is a good reminder to always say nice things
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Yeah, what if I was even a little bit ranting about her - maybe saying something like "sorry took me so long because 'y' kept yapping as usual". Agh, I would have been so mad at myself!
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Dec 15
Ir sure is a good reminder to only say nice things about other people.
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• Centralia, Missouri
11 Dec 15
@sishy7 just a good reminder to watch our words! Glad this was nothing but a tad embarrassing!
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
10 Dec 15
Many years back I sent a message to my best male friend that was meant for my boyfriend at that time, I had just gotten back from a girls night out dancing, I never put a name and my friend thought I was hitting on him... Thank goodness all was eventually sorted out.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Oh no, I can just imagine your shock when you realized it was sent to a wrong name/number on your mobile...
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• West Haven, Connecticut
11 Dec 15
Lol good thing you didn't say anything bad about her
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Yeah, I wouldn't be able to follow it up with just an "oops, ignore that!" to my friend if I had said anything bad...
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
18 Dec 15
Oh yes and it was bad. My Mama and my middle sister were having a spat and I was trying to reconcile the both of them. The texts were flying both ways fast and I sent one meant for my sister to my Mama and one meant for my Mama to my sister.
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@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
29 Dec 15
@sishy7 I think it made both of them a bit angry with me but we got over it and even though they still don't have a great relationship they are on better terms now.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Dec 15
Uh oh, I hate to imagine that it made matters worse...
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@UmiNoor (4523)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 15
As far as I can tell, nothing like that ever happened to me. It would be awkward if it had especially if the message contains something negative about the person who wasn't supposed to be receiving the message.
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@UmiNoor (4523)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 15
@sishy7 Does your sister know your friend? If so, it's not unusual that her name will appear in a message from you to your sister.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Dec 15
Exactly! I did mention my friend's name in the message intended for my sister, but luckily it wasn't anything bad of why I was talking about her...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
12 Dec 15
@UmiNoor Yes, luckily the friend is more of a long time family friend so my sister and her know each other. In fact, my friend's parents have known our parents from way back when we were just kids.
• United States
18 Dec 15
I'm sure your friend was understanding and yes, good thing you didn't say anything embarrassing about him. As for me? No, but my husband has. I am very careful to know where my text is going, I even review it for bad grammar before sending...unless I am busy... My first time I wrote the word in a text was to my husband (If only I had kept that, it was too funny). My text was supposed to say "Do you know what we need to put into the pumpkin stew?" but when I got a reply back about with ingredients similar to whiskey, I saw that I had really send this text: "Do you know what we need to put into the pumpkin still" I will have to see if he kept that message, I laugh so hard when I realized my mistake.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Dec 15
Ha ha... yes, typo can also be as bad as misdirected text...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Dec 15
@Carmelanirel2 If I'm not mistaken, does your daughter have a dog grooming business? If so, yes, helping there would require one to be focused...
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• United States
29 Dec 15
@sishy7 I know, I should ask my husband if he still has that text so I can take a picture of the exact words..It was pretty funny, because I was helping my daughter at her shop and was focused on that job when I received his text that made no sense...until I read what I sent him.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
26 Dec 15
I've sent a text to the wrong recipient before, yes, but I haven't sent a text with anything bad in it to the wrong recipient!
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Dec 15
Good for you! I hope you had wonderful holidays with your loved ones...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Dec 15
@DaddyEvil Oh wow, that sounds like... fun? Was myLot quiet at the time? But seems like you still found some action to participate in and share with your daughter... We did good... My family and I enjoyed a nice, quiet and relaxing time together...
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
29 Dec 15
@sishy7 Yes, hon, I sure did! My daughter and I spent the day playing online. We purposely didn't invite anyone else over for dinner or anything else and so it was just the two of us. We both played online doing what we do online. I was here on myLot and she played several new kids games and wrote about them. The she and a friend tried out an Indian game (that isn't going to sell many copies, in my opinion) about making a baby and keeping it alive... unfortunately, she and her friend decided it was more fun to see how many ways they could contrive to kill the baby, instead. They took a plethora of gross screenshots of the various ways they found to kill the baby and the reactions of the authorities when they were discovered. Yes, I do know how this sounds, hon! But, while we were in our separate rooms playing our separate games we were also sending cascades of emails back and forth... She grossed me out several times with the ways they found to kill baby and I sent her screenshots of several of the discussions I was participating in ... I could here her screeching with laughter several times and twice, she came running in to check to see who wrote what I had just sent her. Yes, I had a great holiday with my child. How did you and your family do?
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
I have sent texts to the wrong person. But I never said anything bad luckily. I have also accidentally phoned someone so they heard a long conversation!
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Dec 15
Oh, did you mean you unknowingly called a number and the other person answered while you were unaware they could listen to your offline conversation with someone else? Oops...
@paigea (36317)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
@sishy7 Yes, the phone was in my pocket and even though it is locked it phoned someone.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
12 Jan 16
when I send the same text messages to a number of people, I unintentionally send it too, to my brothers. They would text back with the word "HUH?", so i say sorry to them.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
12 Jan 16
He he... it's just a harmless mistake, I'm sure...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
13 Jan 16
@ridingbet So, it wasn't a scam, he really did have a new number, right? Did he really mean to send you money?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jan 16
@sishy7 my kid brother also sends me some scam messages like "this is my new sim number. I will send you money.I miss you, and I love you". When I don't answer back, he texts me, "Big sis, this is your kid brother"!
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