Never befriend anyone with narcissistic personality disorder

@scheng1 (24649)
Singapore
December 13, 2015 5:31am CST
This is a lesson I have learnt from having a so-called friend with narcissistic personality disorder. I no longer consider her as a friend, and regret spending so much time listening to her. Now that I know a bit more about narcissistic personality disorder, I will never again make friend with such persons. People with this personality disorder are selfish people. They think that they are superior to everyone else, and everyone else is plain stupid. When they see others whispering, they assume that others are jealous of them. They never think that others hate them for their arrogance. They may ask how you are, but they are not keen to know. Even though you keep on texting about your problem, they never care. They call you when they need you, but they are not interested in sharing your problem.
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• United States
13 Dec 15
Sadly I think a lot of people are like this now.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
13 Dec 15
Yes, it think it has to do with the change in thinking. When people put themselves first before nation and family, they will be miserable for the rest of their lives.
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• United States
13 Dec 15
@scheng1 The sad thing is these types of people don't realize that they are alienating themselves, not until it's too late anyway.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
13 Dec 15
@ScribbledAdNauseum They are not likely to realize it because every single thing that goes wrong is the fault of "stupid" people. They do not see themselves in the wrong, and they always put the blame on others.
• Melbourne, Australia
13 Dec 15
That sounds like it would be terrible to have a friend like that. I wonder how long you had such a friend and what you thought of them when you considered them a friend.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
13 Dec 15
I get to know her when we were working in the same company. We were lunch mates. At that time, we had the same problems at work, and we earned about the same salary, so we could talk. We did not talk about personal matter until both of us left the company. That was the time when I started to realize her ugly side!
@marlina (154130)
• Canada
26 Dec 15
We have to be careful who we accept for friends.