~What Others Think~

The thoughts that come to mind are that of a loving woman whose family always came first. She loved children and adored her husband. And, she was a hard worker.

When I see your avatar and discussion topics I see a smart young woman giving it her all. A woman who loves her family and like anyone she has her good days and her bad days. I see a thinker. A woman who will have a huge impact on her children long after she's gone because she put them before her own needs.

what I think is of a woman who loves her family.

What I see is a kind person, who cares for her family. That's what I can gather from your posts, and such. You really seem like a good person.

i do not worry about things that have not happened yet. Just enjoy your life now.

@LovingMyBabies You come across as one who cares about people and is honest and works hard.

I think I have thought this question before, but I'd just let others think and not think about it. You are a loving person, a person who loves the family, including her husband and her children.

I wonder this alot but never know the answer and may never know the answer.

I see a good woman who loves her family. She is always busy and knows her own mind. I see someone kind and sweet.

when I saw your username and the avatar, I thought you must be a mommy. it is a habit of mine to refrain from putting label and whatnot. Unless I have interracted with someone then I will know for a fact the traits and so on. I don't wonder what people who doesn't know say about me. I don't see the point of doing so.

That same fear of caring about what others think stops a lot of people from stepping fear out of their safe zone and simply living life

I think at some point we all wonder this. What impact do we have on the world. I use to not think much of myself until I saw myself through other people's eyes. Most people see me as a wise, loving , caring person. I never know it until they told, me.

If so people will be happy, i think, cuz they don't love to hear what i say like: "You know what, I love to do what I do, because I know there is some day that I am gonna die, and everyone is the same." They think I am crazy becuz nobody wants to hear that truth. They think im talkative for a while and sometimes, i am just silent, they think im boring becuz i don't talk clothes. Sometimes, i always talk to myself. My friends they don't love to talk to me cuz i love to point out how bad we are and discussing how to change it. While they wanna talk and look at how good and comfortable they are just becuz they wanna find a comfortable feeling. I am not feeling lost, becuz i'll be with God. For example: when they talk about educating children in VN, they tell me the capital is great, and stuff, while a political mind tell me how can it be a good place where people deny that the roads is full of block, the river around a city becomes a drain with black color, a 25 years old man becomes a leader of a big province (like county in western country) without our knowing nothing about the votes. How a place can be good for education? And they tell me: you know this is the best. OMG!

I have. I like to think. It's often underrated! (but seriously, it is!) I can only go on what I have spoken with you about thus far, Loving...but I'm sure people will say wonderful things about you if and when that inevitable moment does finally come! I've barely known you a day now, and I would be quite sad to learn your passing and say nice things, TRUE things, things that I've observed about you and 'your ways'! Everyone says "S/he was the type of person that would light up every room that they entered!" I would speak in such overused clichés! That's for sure! I'm on the fence as to if I care what people say about me when I die. Sounds harsh, I know. But I have a purpose for my pristine reputation when I'm alive...an not so much afterwards. If people say bad things then they were probably deceiving me all along, so let other people see how they look saying such things about the recently departed! I'd also hate to think that people will miss me, because that causes them pain. So there are different ways of looking at it I suppose! What good is a legacy to someone that's not around to witness it? I go back and forth though, and you could probably talk me in another direction pretty easily...I'm quit malleable with respect to this concept I suppose!

oh no,there is times that i did wondered if i passed away,what would people say about me,and i mean pass away now or tomorrow,did they know i am not here

I've only been around a short time but I know you love your family. You seem like a good person in my book.

Hard worker, thoughtful, good mother. That`s what I get from your posts when you was at bubble.

well the simple thing in my think is that my best friend will make fun of me in front my grave and i will smile to them because it's make me happy.to have best friend like them and they will run away if i smile to them , that's what i call friendship