To Block or Not to Block: When if Ever Do You Block Your Door

United States
December 14, 2015 11:03pm CST
Some websites pay its members to post and exchange written commentary with each other. Generally, these sites don't pay much money. However, since money does change hands (in theory), people should not be able to publicly post for potential profit and then restrict certain people from the public conversation, by selectively blocking comments to their own written word, selectively making invisible their own written words or deleting the written words of others that may not conform to their opinions. Moderators are generally available on these sites to delete comments that fall outside of TOS. This is particularly troubling and inherently wrong when people can post inflammatory discussions and make provocative comments and than have the ability to prevent certain people from participating on a publicly and potentially paid for post. If someone needs to keep provocative and inflammatory words secret from certain people, not for profit posting is available on sites like Facebook, which I have heard has a block feature. Also, writing provocative posts makes great fodder for spiral notebooks which can be tucked under the bed and kept safe from competing views. Here is another discussion on myLot about blocking people that is worth a read too:
Blocking people on a site like this surely has to be the absolute and utter last resort? Personally I'd never block anyone and people can hold me to that. Maybe...
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8 responses
@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
15 Dec 15
People who block others tend (in my experience) to be cheats who think that blocking will stop us from reporting them. Unfortunately here, blocking someone doesn't stop them still being able to see you cheat - it just means people can't comment on your stuff. I find it deeply frustrating that MyLot lets repeat plagiarists and people who break the rules stay despite multiple deletions of their posts.
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• United States
15 Dec 15
@boiboing In my experiences those users that block people or clamor for sites to install block features like to have big online personalities, but don't like to debate or defend their positions. They like to have the last word, but can't handle it when they are on the losing sides of disagreements.
@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
15 Dec 15
I personally think you're right on this one. If you see a person cheating and call them on it who knows what they will do. I'm sure they don't like it and they don't want others to know they have done this. So block you to keep you quiet. The only way to know if you're really blocked is to go to try and comment on one of their discussions. Then you can see if you're blocked or not. But what did they gain by doing this? That is what I have never figured out. Why block a person? I don\'t get it at all.
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• United States
15 Dec 15
@poehere it feeds their ego and need to be in control.
@Mike197602 (15514)
• United Kingdom
15 Dec 15
Firstly I'll say my discussion about blocking is for *******got the red letters so i titled it blocking is for cats rather than for pu**ies Secondly I'll say even though HanVanM says it is ok I'm not sure about the linking so if GAA has a problem I'd like to mention my discussion was up way before his Anyway...my response is short and very sweet. Blocking is an utterly stupid idea. Pretty easy to plainly ignore someone...doesnt matter what they say, this is the internet...they're not going to punch you, mores the pity some times. Blocking means you can't take it, you can't take your opinions being challenged. If someone is being utterly abusive and nasty even then i wouldn't block them although I can see the argument for reporting them. Personally I'd just leave them to the abuse and see them taken out by members like me who will jump on a bully like white on rice.
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• Calgary, Alberta
7 Jan 16
I dont make discussions that are debate materials because I avoid debates as much as possible but there is this jerk who is a party pooper and ruins every discussion of mine he was present. He is basically a smart aleck and a decadent subhuman. He is the only person I hated in my almost a decade years of membership here. Blocking him is the best decision I made in my entire stay in Mylot. He knows how to get into people's skin without making a violation. I tried reporting his comments (there is no delete option then) that are off topic and annoyingly ruins my topics and reporting them makes it impossible for me to delete them because his form of harassment is not seen as violation. He made Mylot a living hell for me for 3 years. The moment I am able to block him, things has changed. I became happier and less stressed. Sorry but I am given the right to block him and I have to grab it because I want him out of my life. I cut ties to people I dont like.
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• United States
8 Jan 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker are you sure you were not being overly sensitive? Can you give more concrete examples of what sort of comments he would leave?
@OreoBrownie (3755)
• Commerce, Georgia
15 Dec 15
I don't appreciate being blocked, like if they don't like my comment.
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• United States
15 Dec 15
@OreoBrownie has this happened to you before?
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Dec 15
There is someone on here that blocks people for no reason. She blocked me on my second day here and I was bewildered about it. Then I found out that she's well known for it and has done the same to lots of people so it didn't bother me any more. I've never blocked anyone, but I can envisage a scenario where I possibly would - if someone were verbally abusing me for instance.
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• United States
16 Dec 15
@jaboUK blocking would be appropriate for dealing with verbal abusers. Hopefully, the abusers would then get the boot.
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@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
15 Dec 15
I personally believe it is childish to do this. If a person decides to do this to me let them. Soon they will have blocked all the members on this site because they didn't get their way. Then what nobody will be left to comment on their discussions. They they have won all they will get is a lot of likes and who cares to leave them a like after they have done this. So let them play this childish game and move on. I don\'t feel like it's necessary to do this on a site like this.
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• United States
15 Dec 15
@poehere I find it childish too.
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 15
I blocked one person on here and that is because they were personally attacking everything I wrote-in my discussions or in others discussions that I would respond to. It would not stop even after asking them many times so I finally blocked them to make it stop. Other than that person I haven't blocked anyone.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
22 Dec 15
I was blocked, I have no idea when but I tried to comment on a post I saw in "Explore" and there was no comment space. I checked his posts later and discovered his thoughts and mine are completely opposite. I'm glad he blocked me because I'm not interested in his rants, his negativity towards most people on the earth and I don't want anything to do with him. If he hadn't blocked me I probably would have left nasty comments so he was saving his own bacon so to speak..Not a bad idea if your going to talk trash about most people on this site...