Do You Believe in Destiny?

@moondebi (1199)
Bangalore, India
December 19, 2015 3:58am CST
Is everything predestined? Is destiny an excuse of a weak mind? Can we change something according to our desire? Can we expect that our positive efforts will bring an affirmative output? None of us has a proper answer. Some incidents in life compel us to believe in destiny. In our good times when positivity flows, we tend to deny the destiny, but when the time is not favorable, our thoughts change. We like to limp in the name of destiny. The incidents and the happenings of our lives might be destined, but either way, life has to move on. What are your thoughts on destiny?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 15
No I don't believe that things are predestined. I believe in cause and effect.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
That is a scientific thought!
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@fawkes62 (1276)
• United States
19 Dec 15
There are times where I think that maybe destiny plays a role in our lives, but for the most part I don't think it does. There is an obvious cause and effect for most things.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
That is how destiny is made, I guess.
@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
5 Jan 16
@innertalks , I too, believe in cause and effect theory, but get jeopardized by its way of manifestation.
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@innertalks (22070)
• Australia
5 Jan 16
Everything has a cause and effect, and therefore everything must happen from a background of perfection, even if it's being imperfectly seen by others, or by ourselves right now. The idea of destiny to my mind is really alluding to this perfection that exists behind all things, and makes them work. If there was no background perfection, things would cease to work, or not work at all. The Universe goes on working in one way or another, and so I feel there is something going on behind it, some underlying reason for this happening, call it God, or something else, but I definitely feel some ultimate cause is behind the effects that we see, working behind the scenes as it were..
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Dec 15
I always believe that God did not plan anything bad for us. But bad things come as a result of wrong choices either by us or by people around us because we were given by God the freedom of choice and we are always responsible for our choices.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Dec 15
@moondebi Yes, when bad things happen to us it is a result of the bad choices we did or the bad choices of the people that surround us.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
22 Dec 15
My opinion is also similar. God can never plan something bad for his children.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Dec 15
sometimes I think it is all relied destiny and mine is a bad one. tho I still try to change it . guess that is called hope
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
25 Dec 15
The things which are happening without much of our intervention, might be a destiny. But, as you said, we must not lose hope.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
20 Dec 15
I think we have free will and only God knows what our destiny is since he knows all things.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
Yes, to come to a conclusion, we have to think like that.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
19 Dec 15
I don't believe that at all. What happens happens
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
@jstory07 , That might be true, who knows.
@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
Could be true!
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Dec 15
Ane what does happen does happen/
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
20 Dec 15
Even if destiny puts you in a certain place, and time to benefit from an opportunity, it is still up to us to grab the opportunity and to work hard to get the result we want.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
That is true! Destiny is not going to help us if we do not help ourselves.,
• Philippines
19 Dec 15
we create our own destiny, what ever we do now, will be our future. It's just that in my case, I didn't do much important in my life. Now, Im stuck with taking care of an old lady. but i have a good life still despite of this i have my own free will too.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
The situations of life make us to think in a way, as no one has a concrete answer.
@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Dec 15
What happens happens if it is meant to happen.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
That is a destiny, I guess!
@IreneVincent (15962)
• United States
7 Jan 16
I do NOT believe in destiny for one simple reason. I'm a Bible reader and I don't think that a God of Love would ask us to pray for better conditions if we were "destined" to an unchangeable future. There is much to be said about this subject and I will consider writing more about it later. But, think about this: John 3:16, one of the most quoted scriptures in the Bible plainly explains that we can do something about our future prospects by believing and exercising faith in God's only-begotten son, Jesus Christ. And as I said, prayer would be useless, if our destiny was already determined. For more information about this subject you can go to a wonderful web site: and read Bible based articles on this very subject and you can watch FREE videos and read the Bible in your own language. Your English is excellent but living in India, I'm sure you speak more than one language. It's better to read the Bible in the language you call your own.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
10 Jan 16
Yes, I would love to read, if there is something which can quench my query.
@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
7 Jan 16
Very well said
@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
20 Dec 15
I think we make our own destiny, we can change anything that is going on if we believe in ourselves. Fate is an excuse.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
21 Dec 15
Might be! Whatever it is, strength of mind and hope should not be lost.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
22 Dec 15
@moondebi O yeah, I firmly believe in destiny. I am destined for life to live with my spouse who snores double-time, forgets her dentures once in a while, always late to church most of the time, does not talk to me for days when she is mad, and overcooked everything including my hotdog and egg all the time . . . My usual breakfast is bread, boiled egg, and hotdog plus chopped tomatoes.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
27 Dec 15
@antonbunot Have you tried to change the situation?
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@hiru84 (942)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 15
I never believe destiny. If our minds are strong we can face to any thing and we can win challenges. Mistakes are common things and we can't put them to destiny. Today we are happy sometimes tomorrow we will be sad.It is the law of nature.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
27 Dec 15
Keep up this strong faith. You will be able to make your destiny follow you.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
7 Jan 16
I believe that the Lord has a plan for our lives, but decisions we make have a bearing on how our life turns out. I believe the Lord is in control, and if we trust in Him, He works everything out for our good.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
10 Jan 16
I, too, have similar faith, but the trust seemed to dwindle during hardships.
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@Shiva49 (26762)
• Singapore
4 Jan 16
My take in life is to take responsibility for our actions and to live in the moment. Believing in destiny can lead to a defeatist attitude - siva
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
22 Dec 15
I our life is based on the decisions we take.
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
25 Dec 15
There happen some incidents in our lives where we never have taken any decision.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
25 Dec 15
I believe the same as @BelleStarr. No one knows our destiny except for God.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Dec 15
we make our own future, I believe
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 15
Yes, we do, but while making do cannot realize that fact.
@innertalks (22070)
• Australia
5 Jan 16
I sometimes ask myself the question if this idea of destiny is linked into the concept of time somehow, but then I think to myself that maybe both concepts are unreal, or only illusionary ones, really? Destiny doesn't exist, except for its acceptance in your mind of time, and time (the idea of it, as held by the mind) brings this idea to the forefront of your thoughts, or mind then, because you so often expect things to take place for you, only within this time. The truth is though that all happens now. There is only the present moment existing. There is no time. Time is an illusion of the mind which likes order, and destiny then doesn't exist in the sense of things happening through time to you either, but upon the spiritual journey that we are all partaking of, destiny could be said not to be the final destination, but more the direction of the path that is forever going ever onwards, ever expandingly to infinity.
5 Jan 16
Yes I do. But, it is foolish to leave everything to destiny or fate. What you become in your life, is a direct result of how you live
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@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
5 Jan 16
Yes, becoming something in life is absolutely in our own hands, and the things which is beyond our reach, might be destiny.