Before Leaving The House

Philippines
December 20, 2015 1:23am CST
Do you leave the house empty and just lock the door or gate? Do you hide the key under the doormat or among the plants? Have you ever locked yourself out of the house? How did you get in? Most houses in my neighborhood have fences and gates. We have a doorbell, which passing school kids love to play with. Those who didn't look or don't know what it is holler or tap on the gate. If we ever left the house empty, it's only for several hours; but if it's whole day, overnight, or several days, one of us will go home early, or we ask a relative to stay. Sometimes there's only 3 of us here; me, my mother and another sibling. Although she is still mobile, alert and don't mind being left alone, if one of us has to step out, we coordinate so one of us stays with her.
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@amnabas (14685)
• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Dec 15
We do go out collectively sometimes but thats very rare.We are 16 members so any one member quits and stay in the house.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 15
16 people in one house?
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Dec 15
That is a lot of people in one house, is it standard to have so many people living together? @amnabas
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@jstory07 (139996)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Dec 15
We have a key hidden in the back yard and the adult children and older grandchildren knew where the key is.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 15
yeah, i notice that for houses in other countries, you enter through the back, not the front door.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Dec 15
My kids have done that, hidden a key in their backyard where only people who know where it is can find it. Also my kids have left the key with a neighbor. @jstory07
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
24 Dec 15
@hereandthere We always enter through the back door.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
20 Dec 15
What's the point to lock the door if one leaves a key under the mat?
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
20 Dec 15
yeah I have broken into my own home through a window before lol
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• Philippines
20 Dec 15
really? did you have to break the glass?
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
20 Dec 15
There is no point locking the door if you are going to leave the key.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 15
we don't do it, but i see/hear/read about it being done in other countries
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@anh101 (1379)
20 Dec 15
Somehow i rarely forget putting my key inside, cuz i always get it stick to my key ring. Better this way out. But i ve help my neighbor to open the door without a key, by using a scissors and a knife.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Dec 15
@hereandthere I also now keep a house key inside my purse and also an extra key for my vehicle.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 15
my housekey is in my bag so i always have it with me when i leave. how long did it take to open the door using the scissors and knife?
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@anh101 (1379)
21 Dec 15
@hereandthere yeap keeping an extra key inside purse isis a good back up plan
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
22 Dec 15
We do leave the house empty and lock the door and gate, and not leaving any keys in the house. As there are only four of us in the family, including two young children, either my husband goes out on his own, or all of us go out together. As we are staying away from our family, we usually go back to hometown to celebrate some festivals, especially Chinese New Year, so we might leave the house empty for days. I think I have never locked myself out of the house as we are using the lock which the key must be slot in, hence I think there will be no chance for me to lock myself out.
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@much2say (56107)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Dec 15
We do have a secret place for that spare house key! And we have that now that I have locked myself out before. I was LUCKY in that I was able to break into the house via a low back window that I knew for a fact was slightly open (it was hard to close). But now it's fixed, so it'd be hard to break in now. Oh, and I lock up everything before I leave - no matter how quick my trip out will be.
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• Philippines
22 Dec 15
good thing you fit in the window. i mean did you have to twist and fold yourself like a pretzel or slither like a snake?
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@Raine38 (12389)
• United States
20 Dec 15
I live alone, but I stay most of the time at my boyfriend's place. I do have a security system. I make it a point to lock my doors and windows, and activate the alarm whenever I leave my house for work or when I stay at the boyfriend's place. It gives us a sense of peace that if ever somebody tries to break in the authorities will be alerted. So far my alarm has not been tripped and hopefully that time will not come.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Dec 15
Good for you having an alarm system as my alarm is my dogs barking when someone comes.
• United States
20 Dec 15
We have a key hidden. Most people in the US have a key hidden somewhere on their property. Atleast one person is always here, but most of the time two are here at one time. We don't have to worry about extended leaves from home as we don't go on vacation! haha.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Dec 15
There is generally someone here but if not we have a key hidden where no one would think to look.@ScribbledAdNauseum
@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 15
Of course we leave the house empty, when we go to visit family or we go on vacation. Anyway I would never leave the keys under the doormat.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Dec 15
You are right not to leave a key under the doormat as that is the first place someone would look for a key to the house. @LadyDuck
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
21 Dec 15
@LadyDuck really no one there locks their doors. I never used to and probably where I am living now there is not much of a need because I have my guard dog.
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 15
@Marcyaz No one has this habit here. I thought to buy one of those locks that do not need a key, but I fear to forget the right combination.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Dec 15
we have dogs that ferociously bark when they sense or smell something different. But we lock our doors.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Dec 15
If someone comes by my dogs will also bark to let us know even though we do lock our doors also.
@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
20 Dec 15
We hide a key in our barn. My son lives with us so even when we go camping he is here.
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• Philippines
24 Dec 15
that's a good spot.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
24 Dec 15
@hereandthere yup if you didn't know where the key was you could never find it.
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• India
20 Dec 15
Always cross check twice the lock before leaving the house.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 15
do you take the key with you?
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
22 Dec 15
In the past I was at home almost 24/7 when I did not have a working vehicle. After getting a vehicle I am now away from home more often. Most of the time it is only during the day. If we are both away we will lock the doors and leave the tv on.
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@rebelann (112987)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Jun 19
That must have been awful, I tend to stay home more often than not but when I don't have a working car I get worried.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
25 Dec 15
I think we are fortunate to live in high rise apartments. When you live at level 10 or 20, it is hard for anyone to look at the windows, and check if you are at home or not. If we are going off for a week or more, and nobody is at home, we can ask the police to check out our house when they are patrolling the area.
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• Philippines
25 Dec 15
i know a family who visited someone there. they took off their shoes before entering the apartment. when they came out, her sons' sneakers were gone.
@Hate2Iron (15727)
• Canada
2 Apr 16
We have a key hidden in the backyard... I doubt that anyone would ever find it lol!
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• Philippines
3 Apr 16
as long as it's in a very unlikely place
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@Hate2Iron (15727)
• Canada
3 Apr 16
@hereandthere Oh yes... actually is almost funny where I finally put it!
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
22 Dec 15
I have a key to our apartment and my brother also has a key (we live together) and since we are always together when we go out, we are pretty much covered. I have been locked out before, many years ago, and I had to break a window to get inside.
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• Philippines
24 Dec 15
i guess that means you had to make sure there were no jagged edges. i hope it was big enough and low enough. i guess you had to replace it immediately.
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• Philippines
28 Dec 15
@simone10 it must have been frustrating. were they fixed within the day or did you have to cover it for a while? good point about the locksmith.
• Midland, Michigan
28 Dec 15
So even if your mother leaves the house you don't like to leave the house empty for too long? Is there a problem with vandalism or breakins where you live, or do you never lock your doors at all? We don't leave an extra key anywhere on the property, we used to leave one on a high shelf on the back porch when we first moved here, and the kids were younger, but now everyone has a key. I have left before and realized just after closing the locked door that my keys were inside. Sometimes I've been able to climb into a window, but mostly in the summer. Other times I make sure the windows are locked and then I hope that I don't forget my keys. Usually, I check to make sure they are in my pocket more than once before leaving for the day. Our house is empty quite a bit as we all work different shifts.
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• Philippines
30 Dec 15
our house is kind of exposed because it's on the corner and our fence is low. i don't want her to be alone, either, also because of her knees.
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• Midland, Michigan
30 Dec 15
@hereandthere If people in our city have fences, they aren't usually in front of the house but in the back. Mostly to keep either kids or dogs in the yard, not necessarily to keep people out. Rarely do people gate their yards. We have doorbells on the outside of the front and back doors themselves rather than any gates. Most people keep their doors locked, although if we have family that need care, then we do make sure someone stays with them most times.
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
3 Jun 16
We lock the doors because we have keys to open. What´s the use of locking the door when the key is under the doormat. Yes, I saw this many times in American movies.
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• Philippines
3 Jun 16
i saw them, too.
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