Do GIRLS really like bad BOYS ;-)

December 20, 2015 11:44am CST
Do girls really fall for bad boys or for so called "Good Boys". I really suspect, if there are any Good Boys....at least I don't know of any... I believe deep down every boy is a bad boy.. What do you have to say about it??
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Wendy789
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
20 Dec 15
I think girls like good boys that's a bit bad... And bad boys that's only good to them.
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Arnik
@FREE_GUY (30)
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20 Dec 15
how do you define a bad boy...? :-)
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Wendy789
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
21 Dec 15
@FREE_GUY well.. It's like food, you know it's bad for you, but it just taste too darn good!
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Arnik
@FREE_GUY (30)
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21 Dec 15
Nice comparison
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vanny
@vandana7 (100616)
• India
21 Dec 15
We live in a world where we need people who could do something difficult. Good guys go so much by the books that should something difficult come up they would be like fish out of water. Instinctively girls want to be protected, and the person who is bad is usually strong and powerful. It is not liking as much as feeling secure with such person that draws girls to such folks. My two pence worth thinking. :)
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vanny
@vandana7 (100616)
• India
22 Dec 15
@DWDavis ..Could it be that those girls feel trapped and are afraid that whoever they seek help of, will be killed or hurt? Or don't know whom they should trust to get out of that trap? I don't believe girls like that sort of man. They are there just to escape bigger issue or are planning something serious which may even be killing such a man.
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DW Davis
@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
22 Dec 15
Most of the bad boys I've seen girls with were cruel, insensitive, selfish, and their idea of being strong was giving the girl a beat down when she overcooked a meal or he didn't like her makeup. Good guys may often go by the book, but more importantly, they do what's right when nobody's there keeping score. Sometimes that might mean taking down the bad guy.
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Wendy789
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
21 Dec 15
For some women, it's about conquering.. there's something satisfactory about bring down a bad boy. xD
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inertia4
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
21 Dec 15
Lots of women like bad boys. But they are not marrying material. And it does seem like the good guys always finish last. Sad though.
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inertia4
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
22 Dec 15
@DWDavis I get that and yes, I do agree with that to a point. But there are those girls that just seem to like the bad boy type.
DW Davis
@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
22 Dec 15
In my experience, most of the girls I've seen who like bad boys are girls raised by single or divorced moms who didn't have a positive male presence in their lives while they were growing up. These girls don't know how a man should treat a woman and they mistake being bullied and intimidated for being cared about.
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Saurabh
@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
20 Dec 15
I think girls like mixture of bad and good boys...
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Saurabh
@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
21 Dec 15
@FREE_GUY; That's my opinion about girls they always want good boys but they should also have some bad boys qualities also.
Arnik
@FREE_GUY (30)
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20 Dec 15
I could only partially agree with this statement bro :-p
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Kaysi Lynn
@Kaygreen1913 (162)
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21 Dec 15
It has to be the right mixture of good and bad lol
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Arnik
@FREE_GUY (30)
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21 Dec 15
And what are the proportions for this right mixture? :-)
Tina Arnold
@Coffinspire92 (38)
• Spring Mount, Pennsylvania
21 Dec 15
I honestly have a bad boy thing. It's like a guilty pleasure. Sure, I would like to think I like the good guy that opens doors for me and pays for my meal. That's in a perfect world though. I would rather go to a concert or veg out on the couch and eat taco bell :) It's the darndest thing.
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Tina Arnold
@Coffinspire92 (38)
• Spring Mount, Pennsylvania
22 Dec 15
@DWDavis I can't really argue about it, 2 of my exes went to prison so :/ I've always been attracted to the bad boys.
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
21 Dec 15
The definition of good or bad will differ from person to person (read girl to girl).
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drkraven
@drkraven (521)
• Romania
21 Dec 15
I m pretty sure that girls have no ideea what they really want when it comes to men :) i think they want something else every day or even worse alot of things at the same time. My best guess is that depending on things that elude my judgement they sometimes want bad boys and sometimes good boys...
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jaishankar
@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
21 Dec 15
@FREE_GUY,I think,girls like good,but naughty boys.And 'naughty' doesn't mean 'bad.'Does it?
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jaishankar
@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
22 Dec 15
@FREE_GUY Those who are naughty are mildly and jokingly mischivious.They play pranks,but are well intentioned.
Arnik
@FREE_GUY (30)
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22 Dec 15
Sure dude...I would depends on how you define 'naughty'..;-)
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Ecaterina Male?
@K270799 (1)
• Bucharest, Romania
21 Dec 15
We want good boys but we get bored immediately. I mean, what girl would not get bored of a boyfriend who does anything she says everytime? And I guess those 'bad boys' look interesting to us..
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Violet
@Violetx (38)
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3 Jan 16
Ha just found this and it's similar to a question I am asking myself! I have just started seeing a "nice guy" who just isn't doing it for me compared to the "bad boy" I was seeing in summer last year. I think it is all down to confidence, one has it the other doesn't and that is what makes the difference. Problem is a "bad boy" is not the guy you want it you want something a little more stable...
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Sheena Aris
@Islandtulip (88)
• Jamaica
15 Mar 16
I think so it's like animal attraction lol but after you come to your senses your like what the hell was i thinking.