Good friends are rare! / myLot

Atlanta, Georgia

December 20, 2015 7:27pm CST

So I cherish good friendship because it's hard to come by. I realized this today after talking to an old friend I hadn't spoken with in two years. I was feeling some sort of way today and decided to vent to my fb page and did not expect no one to really care. My friend decided to reach out to me to see if I was ok. I instantly became inclosed because I felt like she moved on and forgot about me. We talked and found out we both had the wrong thought of why we were not as close as we always had been, and once we did I felt like the problem I first had was no longer a problem. It wasn't because my problem got resolved, it was because I didn't feel like I was sitting by myself friendless. I live in a state where I really don't know anyone and I have no family here. It's friends like this that make you feel that distance is not a factor to friendship. It's the little things that matter most at times.

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ElusiveButterfly

@ElusiveButterfly (45940)

• United States

21 Dec 15

My husband wants for us to relocate in the spring. I am on the fence about this because my children and close friends all live near us now. I am not certain how I will deal with not being around them. He says we will visit, but truthfully, it won't be often. At present time I can jump in my car and pick up my family members and go off on a shopping jaunt. The move will take us 2 hours away. The only people we know when we move are my husband's aunt, uncle, his cousins and his aunt and uncle's friend. I worry.

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ElusiveButterfly

@ElusiveButterfly (45940)

• United States

21 Dec 15

@Reese_so_Real My husband will hopefully be able to transfer his job, I will be starting from square one again. Not sure what I will do. I am currently a PCA and although I enjoy my work, I realize that my body may not be able to continue doing the duties.

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Clarice Abby

@Reese_so_Real (92)

• Atlanta, Georgia

21 Dec 15

Yes that is a tough decision. I pray the right decision is made so that you won't end up feeling alone. Having people you call your own is very important to a healthy mind. Keep us posted on the decision and how it's working out I would really like to here how you're doing with it.

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Clarice Abby

@Reese_so_Real (92)

• Atlanta, Georgia

22 Dec 15

@ElusiveButterfly have you voiced your displeasure with your hubby? What are his thoughts?

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Ann LeFlore

@poehere (15123)

• French Polynesia

21 Dec 15

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Clarice Abby

@Reese_so_Real (92)

• Atlanta, Georgia

21 Dec 15

Hey thanks for responding but my welcome post was the other day. And one of our other good mylot members posted the website for me thanks.

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Ann LeFlore

@poehere (15123)

• French Polynesia

21 Dec 15

@Reese_so_Real I am sorry I must of missed this one. I am working long hours and decided to see a few things late last night. I did not realize a person had given you this link yet.

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